Love at first sight?

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we lead monogonous relationships in part of the way most modern societies have it now. so, what happens if we lead polygonous lifestyles, do we have more than one soul mate?

Well yea, no one said how many soul mates there are, or even if they're romantic or not.

I'm rather curious as to how old you are? You wont convince me or anyone else that we are incapable of love, it is of course not a fixed construct, it has no solid deffinition, but it does exist, I am currently in love with a most beautiful girl, i love my parents, love is different for everyone, to me, love boils down to thoughts and deeds, if you think you love someone, you do

First off, do not put words in my mouth. Did I say that there was only one soul mate for every person? I don't believe that's what I said. I said that I believe that there is one out there for ever person regardless of them being tied to you in the romantic sense; who says they can't be your best friend? I personally believe that when you meet your soul mate(s) that you bond in such a way that can only be described as 'love' and love comes in many forms and shapes. Love isn't always about romance or sex; there is more to it than that and to me it isn't just a 'verb' or simple 'emotion'. Can your soul mate be of the same gender as you or even of the opposite sex? Sure, why can't they be? Who said that there is some guideline? You don't pick and choose who they are; they just are in my personal opinion. Who said anything about thinking 'we' as humans were meant to lead monogamous lives when it comes to romantic relationships? If YOU, as a person, feel the need to have multiple partners in order to have a fulfilling physical relationship then get on with your bad self; I personally prefer monogamy.

i think in this case age isn't much help. and regarless, i will not disclose my age. i was stating my opinion, and my point on this discussion. and well, i just stated my point across, and i feel debating this more than what it is a waste of everyone's time.

i simply got anything to say. i am finished saying what i had saying in this topic for now.

tell it like it is katie. get it girl! lol

Quote:heh, i think it has been lost since the very beginning. it is my personal opinion that we as humans don't really love. P.S- just call me zell. Your personal opinion makes perfect sense when one considers that you don't have a definition for love. Without a definition, it becomes fantasy and unreal.

Actually I think what makes love, love, is the inability to describe the feeling when you're looking at, or thinking of someone.

I love the mind of a woman. Description is often at the mercy of a person's skill of words. Besides that, words are often limiting.When he's holding you and you're looking into his eyes, you feel completely vulnerable and yet completely safe all at the same time. When you're making love you hold him tight and feel as if you two have become one entity. Things like that?

exactly. You just...you feel this stir of emotions that the english language doesn't even begin to cover and all you can do is smile and be happy that you've found it.

Lust at first sight for sure... love... unless you've talked to them and haven't seen them to develop a real connection then meet them face to face one day, im sure it's lust haha. Real love takes work and time. Just my 2 cents.