Anal Sex

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Question for the girls i guess. what is the big deal with anal sex? i have had alot of girls tell me it sucks and other tell me much more of an intense orgasm. what makes it soo good and/or soo bad?

Females don't really have any nerve endings in there, or a prostate so it isn't as enjoyable as it would be for a man, but if you combine it with clit stimulation, you can have a pretty good orgasm. most of it comes from the thought that you're having anal sex, then the actual feeling of it.

i think its the thought of it being so naughty that makes it so hot.

the reason it can be bad is because it hurts, well that is what i found anyway.

i got forced to do it aswell so thats probally why.

You should NEVER let anyone force you to do anything!

Originally Posted By: xxblackheartxxI got forced to do it as well so thats probably why. Fucking Ass-wipe. Who was it? I'll go kick their ass!

Er, Virtual_Star, if someone is using force, it may not be possible, or advisable, to resist. I think you meant that if someone is using emotional pressure you still have the right to say no, which is perfectly right; but the way you said it could be taken as meaning that a victim of rape was at fault.

What the fuck!? You should report the bastard!

i was gonna make a new thread about this, but there's already one here, haha. i don't know why...but i actually like it...the thing is, i only like it with my ex. i had done it once before with someone else and it grossed me out, but with him, i really liked it for some odd reason. i told my friend i only like it with my ex and she still thought it was gross. she compared it to even if you like to eat one person's shit and one person's only, it's still nasty, lmao.i dunno...the thought about doing that with anyone else doesn't intrigue me, but just my ex kinda turns me on...really dunno why that is.

Being a guy, I can't speak to what a girl experiences, but I dated a woman who loved anal-play. As for why I like it...I can only guess it's because it's considered "taboo" in most people's minds (those who aren't willing to admit they're interested) and it's something that isn't immediately offered, in most cases. Regardless of the number of nerves internally and the lack of a prostate, I think all women have enough nerve endings around the sphincter to know the "being filled-up" feeling. Shrug. Have a guy in your ass and use a vibrator on yourself at the same time and I can pretty much bet someone is going to see skyrockets...Just my humble opinion. Oh...and being forced to do something you don't want is ALWAYS wrong!

I've read that guys have more of a sensation because it stimulates the prostate gland. This can also be achieved through masturbation involving anal stimulation.

"What's the big deal?" Well, I would have to say the naughtiness of it as far as I am concerned. Once I have been penetrated and have acclimated myself to the fact that something is in me, it is more a matter of clitoral stimulation by his fingers or mine. I have only done it a few times and I need to be in the right frame of mind before. I think guys get more out of this than women do. In addition to any physical enjoyment they may get out of it, I think it gives men a feeling of domination and if the vigor with which they seem to go about it is any indication, they certainly seem to get off on it quite easily!

Besides... Women don't have a prostate to manipulate or rub against. So they loose out on that indescribable feeling of that happening.

i could,COULD see someone getting a feeling like that with doggy style with obvious reasons although its not at all a sure thing, but thats not the only way to perform anal so if that is your reasoning then it cant be placed on the act itself, only that position

the allure for men is probably a combination of the taboo of the act as well as the fact that an untouched anus is generally pretty tight