Question for guys on anal sex.

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I just tried it for the first time iwht my boyfriend, and it wasnt quite what we expected. it was painful for me and he didnt like it either. Is there anyway to improve it or should we just forget about it? Do other guys enjoy it?

ive never tried it... but i would like to..

Well I'm not gay, or bisexual or anything like that, and I don't plan on every having anal sex with a guy, but, dumb question, did you use lube, or a lubricated condom? If not I could understand how that would hurt.

Originally Posted By: EspionageWell I'm not gay, or bisexual or anything like that, and I don't plan on every having anal sex with a guy, but, dumb question, did you use lube, or a lubricated condom? If not I could understand how that would hurt. Oh brother... We have another homophobe here. By the way...Thanks for telling all of us you don't ever plan on having anal sex with a guy. I can sleep better now!

You know what else I love? Nice background research.. the posters profile says she is a girl, not a gay guy. So shes asking if any other guys have tried anal sex, probably meaning with their girlfriends, not being homophobic, but I'm guessing thats what her intention is.

im pretty sure he was talking to the guy who posted after her

Hon I don't think he's a homophobe, just certain that he's straight.

yes, and i replied to the guy who posted after her..

Hon,Than why did he have to tell all of us that he was not planning to have anal sex and another guy. Tell me...Who really cares if he was? I don't! I didn't even think that he wanted too, yet he felt the big need to make sure we all knew he wasn't planning on it.Why would he assume that we all would think that he wanted to? Does that sound like someone how is certain he's straight? Ponder.......

Cause silly teenage boys are paranoid about that, not necesarily homophobic, but just silly.

I dont think he's a homophobe. He was simply reassuring us of his masculinity. You know.... like guys tend to do.As for the question, yes I've had anal sex before (giving to a girl)and yeah, it was kind of dry. No lube of course as it was a spurr of the moment type of thing. But Im sure it wpuld feel better if you did.

Why do people go so off topic in these forums? I've never seen anything like this on other forums. I mean, everyone just starts making a big deal out of something little. Just forget about it and stay on topic!

Oh, I've been on forums where the topic is completely unrelated to the title by the second page, on 10 post pages. This at least has some kindof relation to the title, kinda.

I'm straight, and I'll never do anal. Your butt's for poop to come out, thats it.

The poster is female. She wants to know what it would be like from a males perspective, and how to make it better from a males perspective, the Male perpective being the "Top" In this situation while she is the bottom. You missed the mark completely on this question, and your response was rude.

Wow!

Good wow or bad wow?

Oh goodie lol

I guess it would have to be a good wow.... Bad wow's are... Wow!

never done it but maybe it takes time idk just guessing..