It's something that's been discussed before. But obviously this goddamn topic keeps coming up. Well, I'm here to end it. I have every view listed here. Read it and make your decision. Then shut up and don't ever post your bullshyt again. You will read and believe what you want to believe. Believe what you want to believe..but shut the fuk up already. Both sides and both opinions are in this list. Choose the light. Or choose the darkness.The Debate of the Century:Do Looks really matter?Opinion 1If a woman is initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do wrong on a first date.If a woman is not initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do right on a first date.Opinion 2It's not how "good you look", it's how "attractive" you are.There is one thing that is very true though...You MUST do the absolute best with what you got.Opinion 3Looks only matter to girls who'd leave you when the next, prettier guy comes along.Do you really want to go for that sort of girl?Opinion 4Girls are attracted by looks, status, social skills, confidence, wealth and success. Meaning that if you take an ugly bum off the street and make him an international rock star, chicks will want to bang him, not because he's cute but because he has STATUS!Opinion 5I agree that looks do matter- but only to an extent. I think they matter when forming the initial attraction but after that they become secondary. Once you start to really care about someone their physical flaws become more and more transparent.Opinion 6Looks matter more in cold approaches.Personality matters more in warm pick-ups. Simple as that.Opinion 7Why focus on something you can't change? Do you just want an excuse not to try?Work with what you got and stop making excuses.Opinion 8Looks do matter. But to an extent. You’ve got to be at least average looking.Women like to show off their guys to other women. And if you are the type of guy that she can’t show off, you won’t go far.Opinion 9Looks are the only thing that matters when dealing with women who are shallow and base their existence on what's superficial.Opinion 10Attraction isn't a choice, but being attractive or getting there is a choice. Basically, the man I am trying to become is the one who is very fit, has a career, driven to succeed, and has game and is an overall good guy. Confidence is key and when life is good and you are chasing goals and achieving them, confidence will naturally follow. It is very easy for a woman to sense a man who is not confident and comfortable with who he is. Women are attracted to a man who knows who he is and what he wants in life. There is no question about it.Opinion 11Personality won't help you if you're ugly, nor will any other method. If you don't have good looks, the ONLY thing that can save you is value...Opinion 12Looks do matter. However, the MAIN reason they matter is because they affect the guy's ability to convey the belief of his attractiveness.I have friends who used to be out of shape and got in very good shape. They got more girls. Did girls think they were more attractive just based on the change in their looks? Yes. But another thing that happened that made a BIGGER difference is that by BECOMING more attractive they were more able to convey their BELIEF that they were attractive.Opinion 13Anyone who keeps drilling the fact that looks matter probably relies too much on their looks and does not have much real game.Opinion 14Power is sexy.A deep voice is considered powerful. Money is powerful. Good looks are construed as power. Relevant success is power. Confidence is power. Congruency is power. Intelligence and knowledge is power. Power is sexy. It isn't rocket science.Opinion 15If one guy believes his looks are most important to obtaining his goal, use your looks.If another guy believes his personality is the most important, use that.Opinion 16You have to realize that if you want a woman to be sexually attracted to you, she has to be physically attracted to you to some extent. Attitude alone won't do it; attitude is for maintaining the attraction.Opinion 17Good looking people say looks matter.Average looking people say looks don't matter.Ugly people say looks matter.Opinion 18Women are into looks, but each woman favors a certain look. You might think you're ugly, but that girl you've been staring at all night might feel differently. You won't know until you talk to her. You have to realize that dating is a numbers game and you can't take rejection personally. Just keep talking to every beautiful girl you see, and eventually, you'll find one who thinks that you're the hottest guy who ever lived.Opinion 19It’s not so much looks as it is body language. 90% of human communication is non-verbal. So the way you hold yourself says way more then the best line could ever do.Opinion 20Looks get her to open the door, game is what gets you in the door, and personality is what keeps you inside.Opinion 21The mistake ugly guys make is that THEY approach girls the same way a hot guy would.Opinion 22When a woman is asked, "What do you like in a guy?” she doesn’t usually say "Looks and good sex" or else be branded a slut. So, she grumbles "a guy with a sense of humor". She LIKES those funny men, she doesn't HAVE SEX WITH those funny men unless they happen to be attractive as well as funny. Don't listen to what women say, but rather observe what they do, and your eyes will not deceive or confuse you like your mind’s interpretations of the words will. A sense of humor isn't a bad thing, but it’s not sexually motivating or progressive.Opinion 23Are you ugly? Are you beautiful? It doesn’t matter.Women do not see beauty; they see only sexuality.Opinion 24You can think of yourself as the most fun, exciting, intellectual, sensitive guy, but if you cannot convey it, if you are some wallflower that sticks to the shadows, then you cannot deploy your verbal game and create the attraction in her. Then you are depending on luck and hoping that she somehow magically sees those amazing aspects of you based on no observational, supporting data.Opinion 25While women are interested in looks to some degree,they are MORE interested in how you make them feel.Even if you don't understand this, you have to believe it and start acting as though it's true. You must behave as if you confidently believe that you are the best thing for a woman, and that you are going to make her feel wonderful inside.
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LOOKS - DECIDE FOR YOUSELF!
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Im bored.. so i will do this... But i will only comment on the opinions i agree with or find ridiculousOpinion 1If a woman is initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do wrong on a first date.- Disagree. First off, it doesnt matter how good a guy looks.. if he does something stupid.. i automatically will not find myself as attractive anymore.. I met this guy who i thought was gorgeous.. and would have died to be with him! he was soo cute! Now i find his sooo repulsive! If a woman is not initially physically attracted to a man, there is very little he can do right on a first date. Disagree again.. that is just stupid. Opinion 2It's not how "good you look", it's how "attractive" you are.There is one thing that is very true though...You MUST do the absolute best with what you got. I think everyone should do the best with what they got. Opinion 4Girls are attracted by looks, status, social skills, confidence, wealth and success. Meaning that if you take an ugly bum off the street and make him an international rock star, chicks will want to bang him, not because he's cute but because he has STATUS! Ridiculous Opinion 5I agree that looks do matter- but only to an extent. I think they matter when forming the initial attraction but after that they become secondary. Once you start to really care about someone their physical flaws become more and more transparent. Thats true. I hated in the beginning when Josh would always point out his flaws.. and now im like "SHUT UP! THey dont even matter to me anymore! I dont even notice!" Its just annoying now Opinion 8Looks do matter. But to an extent. You’ve got to be at least average looking.Women like to show off their guys to other women. And if you are the type of guy that she can’t show off, you won’t go far. I do love showing off my sexy boyfriend to girls i hate! Opinion 11Personality won't help you if you're ugly, nor will any other method. If you don't have good looks, the ONLY thing that can save you is value... Wow.. thats ridiculous!! Personality makes you attractive! Opinion 13Anyone who keeps drilling the fact that looks matter probably relies too much on their looks and does not have much real game. Very true.. which is why I hate going to clubs! Cause its full of ginos! Opinion 19It’s not so much looks as it is body language. 90% of human communication is non-verbal. So the way you hold yourself says way more then the best line could ever do. Very true.. my boyfriend was such a gentleman when i first met him! And h carried himself soo well.. i found it irresistable!! Opinion 25While women are interested in looks to some degree,they are MORE interested in how you make them feel. Very very true!! My boyfriend makes me feel wonderful. Which is probably why ive been able to stay true to our relationship. Hes different from most guys
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to be honest i think you talk a lot of sense- but when i read dating advice it feels like trying to memorize something. everybody has different approaches to take and stuff, but for a deep thinker like me i believe its best to just find my own way there. make mistakes, go out, play the numbers game, fall flat on my face umpteen times, and eventually ill come out with the confidence and knowledge it takes to get girls without anxiety. just my spin on this =] and another thing- i believe i can only be the best version of myself that i can be. i can not be somebody else. i can not make myself more interesting, rebellious, unique, or any other way to please women- self improvement is within anybodys reach, but i think the best approach to take in life towards anything is 'i like me, i trust my instincts, fuck it' in other words, being totally sure and happy with yourself makes everything else in life far less intimidating.
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You make me happy.
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I see a lot of familiarity in what you write, did these words come to you in some epic vision or did you copy and paste it? Although that is really beside the point from experiance in the most part i agree with what you've written/copied.I just say look around you, when you goto pubs/clubs etc you see some of the most unlikely couples and ask 'what the hell does she see in her??!!!@?' Personally i dont think im that great looking, in fact i have a big issue with my appearance (too skinny ;o), but other people seem to see through it, i apparently carry myself very well. Although you may see a flaw in yourself others may not agree. Just because we put a lot of emphasis on looks doesent mean everyone else does!Make the most with what you got.
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lol i would say 20 is the most accurate one. if a girl's not attracted to you it won't work period, you can not change that -- she will not "suck it up".