so this girl i used to be friends with (shes been a bitch to me for 2 years now) has this friend who supposedly has a crush on me. i talked to her on AIM and she was being kinda slutty, and i'd never even talked to her before, so i said i wanted to get to know her before i said i said yes or no to going out with her.plus, i finally figured out for sure i'm gay, but i'm not gonna tell that to the 2 biggest gossips in my school.anyway, she kept telling me she loves me and i'm so hot in really suggestive ways, and just generally creeping me out. so i told her i wouldnt go out with her. then someone starts a rumor that we are going out, she thought i started it, and came up to me and yelled at me saying she would never go out with me. then i explained that i didnt start it. then she starts flirting with me again. and now the first girl keeps IMing me and saying how much the second girl loves me and is heart-broken i'm not going out with her. i'm really annoyed now and want to tell them off. i dont know if she really likes me or not, but i dont really care. even if i wasnt gay, i wouldnt go out with her, but this is really annoying. i told them to stop, but they wont.
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Annoyed and confused (venting)
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shit man, i hate people like that, why cant they just back off and leave ya the fuck alone? doesnt make sence
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dude seriouslyI hate chicks that do thatit's even worse when you do date them and they keep coming back
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If they IM you just ignore them, or give them really short, conversation stopping replies like; Yes, no, maybe, dunno etc. Be polite enough to them in person and what not, just don't give them the extra attention they deserve. If they sms you take a day to reply, if they call say you have to go or if they ask you to do something make up an excuse that you can't.They'll grow bored of the lack of attention and move on.
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Originally Posted By: kmrobinsIf they IM you just ignore them, or give them really short, conversation stopping replies like; Yes, no, maybe, dunno etc. Be polite enough to them in person and what not, just don't give them the extra attention they deserve. If they sms you take a day to reply, if they call say you have to go or if they ask you to do something make up an excuse that you can't.They'll grow bored of the lack of attention and move on. agreed.
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Originally Posted By: MaxOriginally Posted By: kmrobinsIf they IM you just ignore them, or give them really short, conversation stopping replies like; Yes, no, maybe, dunno etc. Be polite enough to them in person and what not, just don't give them the extra attention they deserve. If they sms you take a day to reply, if they call say you have to go or if they ask you to do something make up an excuse that you can't.They'll grow bored of the lack of attention and move on. agreed. I second that! Usually when you keep ignoring people like that they tend to drift away and find someone else to force their "affections" on.
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thanks everyone! i'll try to ignore her, but it'll be hard.