My husband has no interest in me sexually anymore...I always have to initiate sex, then he does the deed and hops off...what's WRONG!?!?! We used to be great together, and this was only 2 years ago when we were dating!
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Tell him. Communication is the most amazing thing in the world, tell him your little fantasies or get creative with it. Heck, my husband and I do the most romantic funny little things to get started.
If you don't communicate about your needs, as well as his, you'll sit at this kind of...sexless state for a while.
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It might not be that he isn't interested in YOU it might be that he isn't interested in sex, and thats a different thing. A lack of sexual interest, or drive can be a factor of many things, depression, stress etc etc. Don't take it personally that there is something wrong with you, there most likely is another explanation for his lack of interest. Tell him how you feel, calmly and be understanding and listen to what he says, if he has a problem he might be very embarrassed to admit it, or, he might just be (as men tend to do lol) hoping it goes away, instead of dealing with the cause in the first place. Good luck.
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Java's right. Communication. I know that probably sounds cliche and oversimplified and all that. But there are so many times when things like this happen because there's something going on with one person that they just for some reason can't (or won't) communicate to the other.
I heard a presenter at a Marriage & Family Therapy conference a couple of years ago who was talking about sexuality. I was amazed at how often sexual problems with long-term couples actually came down to a matter of communicating something.
Maybe if you can't work this out between the two of you...and if he would be willing...an impartial third party wouldn't be a bad idea.
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