I'm kind of confused right now.I've had sex like 3 times before I've done it with this most recent guy two nights ago, a marine. To be honest, I don't even know when I really lost my virginity but I'm just going to count my ex (we went out 5 years ago) and then randomly met 5 years later not having seen each other since then, lol.all those times I have had sex before two nights ago, I never bled AT ALL. i kept wondering to myself why i have never bled. even the first time i had sex with the marine, i did not bleed and i got him off, regularly.but last night, we did it again in the bathroom. i had no idea i was even bleeding until i got up, and there was blood everywhere on the toilet seat. nothing hurt either. i know for a fact this guy did not take my virginity cuz my ex and i had sex too, but i just didn't get him off even though he lied saying i did by going to the bathroom to "wipe it off" so i wouldn't see.so my question is this, i know for sure the marine did not take my virginity, but did he pop my cherry? i know it wasn't my period either because i'm not supposed to have that until next week or the week after. plus, when we cleaned up all the blood, i wasn't bleeding anymore. i am so confused right now.sorry for my post being so long, and a bit TMI, but i just wanted to know if anyone knew what i was talking about.i'm new here.
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Confused...did he pop my cherry?
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If you were having rough sex, or you weren't properly lubricated, that can cause you to bleed. It's nothing to be scared of but it does happen.
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You lost your virginity the first time you had sex.Like the previous posted stated, perhaps you were n't lubricated enough. perhpas he is larger than your previous partner and a part of your hymen tore?
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Sorry, I forgot to clarify what I mean when I say I'm not exactly sure when I lost my virginity. I definitely remember all the people I have been with, but we have had some technical difficulties.For example, what is considered losing your virginity, even if only the tip is in there, or if it's only half way in for only a second? I've tried to have sex before I actually had real sex, but it did not work is what I mean. Do I count the ones that were technical difficulties?And about the bleeding, I don't think I have ever bled like that before, like I don't even remember when my cherry was popped whether it was by me or by something, or if it's not even popped yet. I have never had a bloody mess and then no more blood come out like that.I did not even know I was being rough until he said, "you like it rough, don't ya?" haha. but thanks for the tips. I will keep that in mind.