Leaking is probably more of a comedial way to put it, but whenever I'm with my girlfriend, just holding her, I get an erection. I've come to just try my best to hide it but another issue is that it seems after a few mins pre cum (I think) starts coming out and a slow rate mind you, but is pretty much constant. Any way I can control this?
How do I stop the "leaking"
No, it's normal. Learn to live with it. With age the erections will lesson and by virtue of that so will the pre-cum.
There is no punishment. There is no reward. There are only consequences.
Yeah. Very normal and something you've just got to live with! Don't be embarrassed - she just turns you on!
It's happened to me plenty of times before - my boxers are often wet through :$