You seem to be overanalyzing. People that know me would say that I have no room to talk because I do it too.With all the "friend talk", perhaps you've led him to believe that you two are really just friends. And if you two really are just friends, then you shouldn't care whether another girl is hanging off of him or not. Maybe you should be the girl hanging all over him like that. See how he reacts to it.
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I don't know what to do!
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so yeah, it's been a while since i've updated about this situation. and a lot has happened. as for the guy i like who claims he was just looking for friendship because he's tired of drama ((i'm really glad i didn't admit directly to him that i like(d) him, heh)), well i checked his myspace like a few days, or a week ago and it said he is just now in a relationship. well that definitely shocked me. and to think, i was feeling kind of bad hanging out more with a friend of his because his friend is more my type anyway, even though he may be 30, but he looks 24 if you ask me. kinda like me how i'm 21, but i look 15, haha. well i could also look like i'm 21 at times, too. it just depends. u think 30's too old for a 21-year-old? but me and this 30-year-old just hang out as friends though, and he has these two hot 24-year-old friends, only one of them is single. sooo...yea...
it's alright i guess because i've also been hanging out with another guy i met threw a high school friend. it's unfortunate that he had to leave for the air force today and won't be back until christmas, though. i don't get it. i used to hate military men now i seem to have some sort of fetish for them, haha. it seems like just when i think something good might happen, things always change.
he said he would message and comment me, but he hasn't. if i hadn't called him myself today, i wouldn't have talked to him at all. i understand he likes texting and hates talking to people on the phone, but he knows i don't have text and said he would call back but didn't. and he didn't call back like he said he would either and today is the last day that i would have been able to reach him until maybe at least august when basic training is over. he comes back for a break in x-mas of '07 for like a week or two...i know he told my friend that he didn't want to get attached to me when we first started hanging out...i got his number like the very last full day he would be able to hang out with me, but i don't get this either...does it have to be like this? he commented my other friends a lot, too. so he definitely would have had time to at least maybe send me one message. sigh...i don't get it at all, does anyone else? heh.
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He might just not be into you. =/
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about the air force dude, the thing is...he's told his best friend that he really likes me...and he also told a psychopathic bitch that's obsessed with him that he likes me...she tries to get to him through all his family and his friends, but doesn't admit that she does. it's all really pathetic on her part tho, lol.what i don't get is, if he really likes me like he's been telling other people and myself of course, why he wouldn't leave me a message or anything before he leaves. like nothing. i'm the one that had to call if i ever wanted to talk to him until he gets home in x-mas of '07.this makes me think that he won't write me letters while he's gone. i know we've only been hanging out for about two and a half weeks or so, but we've pretty much hung out every single day given a day or two for many hours, and also on the weekends. and the first night we really hung out, he also said he really liked me then and i told him how can u tell if u like someone a lot.i don't know if he really does like me, or if it was just in the moment, even tho he's told some people that he does like me, heh.geeze, and guys think girls are confusing...lol. i don't get any of this.