I've gotten into 3 fighting matches in the past 2 weeks. And the funny thing is that they are all my friends. After the fight they think its all good and we are back as friends. But they never fight with each other they all fight only me, probably because im the smallest person in the group. I try defending my self and just telling them to chill out and im forced to fight back or else im considered weak. When i do fight back they fight back even harder and then the fights become more serious. If i try to avoid them they always think im scared of getting beat by them. Im not a fighter what the heck should i do.
Forced to Fight
Hmm... perhaps you could tell them that you prefer not to fight and you feel like you have to fight when they keep pushing the issue. You can tell them you don't like it and if they still continue then find different friends. I know, easier said than done.
They don't sound like friends!
I worry that you may be unconsciously giving off some sort of "victim signal" that they are picking up on.
take a martial arts class, not to fight, but to defend yourself. Everyone should know some form of self defense, but in your case, you should learn some submissions, where you lock a body part until they scream in pain. They'll leave you alone after hearing the first guy scream.
I am a fighter, Im rather fucking good at hurting people.
Im small, actually the smallest of all the people I run around with.
Two things are different for me though.
1. my friends are nto iddiots, they treat me good because we are friends. We all givde each other huge amounts of shit but its all in fun, and we take it as well as we give it.
2. My friends have been around to see me seriously hurt people, they know I can take care of myself.
If it were me Id stop running around with idiopts that want to fuck with me simply because they can beat me. Those are not friends, thier fucking bullys, and I have zero tollerence for those assholes. You are the comic relief and beat beat boy.
If I was you, next time Id hit the fucker right in the throat. Use your fist and a hook, follow through that fist with an elbow thrown up to catch the bone at the edge of the eye.
a good elbow connecting to that eye right on the bone will split the fucker wide open and need some stitches to close.
follow that with a knee up and into the solar plexis in the center of the chest and as he goes down a nice solid right cross to his fucking chin on his way down.
failing that knees brought up into the bottom of the ribs and pushed in will break them every time.
a heel swept ocross the knee cap will seperate the knee evertime. THe knee cap is held in by a couple tendons along each side and they stretch easy. Every time they stress that knee for the rest of thier lives they will remember getting hit there.
a solid punch to the end of the chin can break teh jaw up high where it connects to teh skull. a stiff cross or hard jab to teh front of the mouth will bust teeth. An upwardthrust to the base of the nose will break it every time.
You heard all the shit abot sending the tip of bone into teh brain and killing them? bullshit.
its a one in a million shot. Iv done it to so many people I lost count, not one of them died from it. I suppose it is possible but not fucking likely.
stomp a the metatarsils in teh foot right forward of the ankle and youll break thier foot.
a heel drop to the base of the skull has knocked out everyone I ever used it on.
always toss the right hand out at the start. everyone watches that right hand, soon as the look at it I hit them with a left jab then the right hook.
FIghting has nothing to do with size, it has to do with knowing how to hurt people.
If i were you though, Id really look into getting friends instead of hanging out with these loser bully assholes your running with now
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
Get New Friends. It doesn't sound like they're your friends at all, just a bunch of asses.
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im always hesitating to fight as well first of all the guy i mainly fight hes 6'4 and im 5'7 and his arms are double the length of mine.... second he is alittle crazy. He takes ritalin, he has frequent school problems, gets angry easily, carries weapons to school and im afraid if i really piss him off hes going to do sumthing really stupid. He tries to fight everyone that he thinks he can win and when someone bigger and stronger comes up to him he doesn't do shit and looks scared. You know what next time he tries to fight me im going full out... no hesitations i dunt care if i kill him or he kills me. I honestly think i can beat him...