ok mi bf wants to have sex but i dont want to rite now i wanna finger myself first so it can mayb b easier...i finger myself and it hurts for me to run over my clit and it hurts for me to even try to put int he hole of my vagina i think its the rite hole i so confused..PLz help
PLZ need answers on some things
First of all, welcome to A2A.
I'm a bit confused, however. The header to your post says that you need answers on some things, but I don't see any questions. Could you be more specific?
Do what you are comfortable with. Tell your boyfriend you want to wait. If he understands, give him a hug and a kiss. If he gets upset, kick his rotten ass to the curb.
Or is this question about how to finger yourself? If so, I got nothing
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Have you ever had a period? The vagine is the hole where all of the blood comes out... Where the tampon goes in.
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i could be wrong so don't quote me on this....but doesn't a girl have to be somewhat turned on so the vaginal muscles and such loosen up so objects/fingers etc. can go in there.
Originally Posted By: baseballfreak23i could be wrong so don't quote me on this....but doesn't a girl have to be somewhat turned on so the vaginal muscles and such loosen up so objects/fingers etc. can go in there.
Yes and no.
Yes, she needs to be relaxed and comfortable enough so it's easier on her. But no, she doesn't need to be turned on for anything to be inserted (i.e. a tampon).
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