ok, i have a girlfriend, i love her, but then, i have my best friend, who i have been crazy about forever, who, untill today, was in a relationship, I'm not asking for advise or anything, i just need to vent because i feel like a terrible person having an insane crush on my best friend when i have a girlfriend, I've had this crush ince b4 i met my gf, i naturaly figured that if i got a girlfriend i would stop thinking of my friend like that, but no, it had to get WORSE, arg!!! I know even if i was single and i asked her out she'd say no, she often say's im liek a brother, I feel like i'm not being fair to my girlfriend, but i cant get rid of this damnd crush...ARGGG
Forbidden fruit, its normal. I've been the same way before, and altho it does drive you crazy and you feel like a complete cunt for liking someone else when ou're with your gf, you can still love your gf and enjoy your time together. Ya never know, getting in a relationship with your friend could reveal her to be a complete bitch, but you know your gf and you know how great she is.
You probably won't stop thinking about your friend, and don't ever think of taking a chance. Just be happy with who you're with, you've just built your friend up too much in yout head.
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yea...I just...I wish it was someone other than this particular girl...cause she is by far the coolest person EVER, and i would be heart broken if i ever lost her as a friend, regardless of my dreams of being more than that, i'd never do anything to hurt my relationship wit heither Her or my girlfriend, i just feel that by liking this other girl so much i am taking away attenton that i should be givign to my girlfriend
Chill man.. Tell her how you feel. Let her know you care.
I wouldn't necessarily tell your current gf that you are talking to a girl that you like.
It's usually best to get things out on the table like that. If your best friend, whom you like, does not like you like that, don't let it get to you. It may be awkward at first, but you get used to it and can still hang with your friend.
Happened to me on a few occasions.
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