So, when I am with a girl, sexually I am fine. The problem for me is for some reason that I really don't enjoy masturbating anymore. For example, i've done this thing since I was younger where I rub a certain part of my penis esp. before I am going to sleep and I cum a little or pre-cum and don't fully cum and I enjoy it. When i'm with a girl, my sex drive is fine but let's say i'm not with a girl I don't feel like I have as much cum. Like I go to the shower to masturbate, I can't turn myself on enough to fully masturbate. I'll masturbate as full as I can maybe once a week but it really isn't close to the level of fully cuming even though it's ok...I just can't turn myself on to that point. I just think it's weird and i'm not sure what it is or how come I am like this. I have always thought it was weird and it is true my sex drive decreased when I was smoking a lot of weed and was upset but when i'm with a girl now I get turned on and my sex is really good unless i've been with that girl for a while...I appreciate the comments back.
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This is really weird...
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no i don't get bored with sex..
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It's been my experience that too much of anything gets boring. If you're getting sex on a regular basis, I would suggest laying off the masturbation for a while. I think you may be being satisfied sexually and don't really feel the need to masturbate, but it's something your brain tells you that you should do. I could be wrong, of course (been known to happen), but maybe you need to come up with a new fantasy for your masturbation...especially if you have gotten everything you've previously fantasized about. Luck!