Girlfriend left me...

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hey guys... about a week ago my girlfriend left me... we'd been together over a year and a half... and she really didnt have any reason... she said she felt the same way and everything... but that she didnt want to be in a serious relationship... she wanted to be carefree... and to not hurt me by what she said to other guys... idk what to make of all of it... and I've been cutting myself like crazy and I want to kill myself so badly. :'( what do i do??

Stop it. People leave other people all the time, but the way you type im guessing your between 15 and 17, you couldn't have thought you were going to be with her forever, and she just wanted somethng new, easy as that. It's not work cutting or thinking about killing yourself, and to think that is a tiny bit selfish. You'll get over it, and move on.

:'( But that's just it... we DID think we could make it... and theres a WHOLE other bunch of stuff behind it and all... just this is... :'( WAS not an ordinary teen relationship... yeah im 17... and i dont cry over anything... and im about to have a major emotional break down and start cutting again... i managed to stop after 2 days... but now i dont think i can control it any longer

Your 17, you wouldnt have made it hon

:'( why not... we had EVERYTHING going for us... we wanted to so bad... she still says she does and FEELS THE SAME WAY SO WHY THE FUCK DID SHE DO THIS?!?!

It's very tough, sooth. It's one of the hardest things to deal with, and it's quite all right to feel devastated and horrible and that the bottom has fallen out of your world and you can't see any way forward - all that is natural. It's also natural to feel angry or numb. With time, the pain will ease and you will be able to get back to living again.

Because she's young and wants someone new, you're only 17, you didnt have everything going for you,

:'( i just dont understand it... shes my first girlfriend... i wanted her to be my only one... we've been together so long... this just hurts so bad i need someone to cry on and i dont have anyone :'(

hugs it'll take time hon, lots of time but you'll be okay.

Quote:Your 17, you wouldnt have made it hon you mean that because hes 17, his relationship never lasted because of it??? ive been with my boyfriend since i was 15, and i just turned 19, to me age doesnt have a lot to do with relationships. and to the o.p, maybe she just wanted to see what its like to be single again. and dont cut yourself!! believe me i know breakups are hard, i used to cut myself because of my first relationship ending, but then after a while i felt like such an idiot to want to end my life because of another person. its not worth it. hugs

Well statistically speaking young people very very rarely stay together for the rest of their lives. And usually the majority of those that do feel that they have to because they got knocked up.

well i guess im a rare one. and im not getting knocked up anytime soon

Originally Posted By: ashley69

and to the o.p, maybe she just wanted to see what its like to be single again. and dont cut yourself!! believe me i know breakups are hard, i used to cut myself because of my first relationship ending, but then after a while i felt like such an idiot to want to end my life because of another person. its not worth it. *hugs*

you're so right... im totally over it now! thanks :smile:

You're entire life isn't over yet, is it?