I need advice and have no one so please if anyone can help me please do. I have been with my girl friend for almost 11 months and i love her. But she has been depressed for months and she is never happy with me all the time she spends with me is just her being upset and she treats me like shit lateley. I dont know what to do about that it once was wonderful with her when she was happy but not for quite some time. I dont know what to do.Last night she left to go hang out with her friend when she was with me. And we are both in school that is why she tells me she is always so depressed so the weekends are the only time i have for her to be happy with me and not treat me like shit. She told me last night that we would spend all day together today she told me this many times. But this morning she called me at 2 from her friends house which she spent the night at and she asked me if i wanted to go with her and her friend to the movies which she maid sudden plans with and broke ours after telling me that she would spend all day with me. She always breaks plans with me and breaks the things she tells me. I got upset and fought with her all day she told me she dident do anything and just dosent understand i never do this to her. She dosent give a fuck that it makes me upset and I need to know if im being unfair since she might as well have lied to me and things like this make me feel like i cannot trust her if she cant even keep plans with me. Am I being unfair ? What should I do? Please any advice? THank YOu
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Quote:And we are both in school that is why she tells me she is always so depressedShe says she is depressed cause she's in school? There must be a better reason than that. If that is the reason she is giving you for being so depressed and upset then she is lying to you. She either has something else going on in her life which is upsetting her and she doesn't want you to know about it, or she is just bullshitting you for sympathy and love and so forth. Either way, she is lying. People don't get deoressed from school alone.You should ask her and try to find out what she's really on about because she is treating you unfairly, not the other way around. You want a relationship, a normal one and to be completely honest, a lot of people would have given up on her already if they were in your position. So go talk to her, ask her whats going on. She can't know that there is a problem if you don't tell her there is. From what you've said, this does not sound like any of it is your fault, but it is your problem to sort out and you'll need to talk to her to do that.
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