Okay, so I've been with my g/f now for just under two months and it's going great. However, when she jacks me off, gives me head or even when we have sex I never cum. She does and she enjoys it but for me, nothing is happening and it's beginning to worry me now.We've had sex about three times and I've been no where near cumming and when she gives me head, I feel something but I never cum. What's up? It's beginning to worry me now.
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Should I be worrying...?
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If you're able to spunk up when you wank yourself, then there's no physical problem.With your current partner, I would suggest that it is ppsychological on your part. Worry you are doing something wrong based on teachings from your past youth, fear of being caught, etc. Obviously, something is breaking your concentration whether you're aware of it or not.Relax aand enjoy the good time, but keep in mind it may never work with this partner. To your surprise, it may work with the next when things inside your head have been sorted out.
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Well, any tips on how to maintain the concerntartion or simply relax? I know it isn't me as I can spunk loads on my own, but with my g/f I don't seem to produce.
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I can also relate to your problem, I find it very hard to cum infront of other people but lately it's been taking me a while to cum when I'm on my own aswell! I do think it's got something to do with concentration and relaxing, so if you have any tips then I would gladly give them a try... It's quite embarasing when your 'put on the spot' with your partner!
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It's not so much I am embarassed cause I get pretty hard when I'm around her and like I have no problem getting it out but I just wish I could cum and I don't see why I don't, seeing as I do when I'm on my own.
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Any tips?