I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks now and things have been great until last night. So It's Friday night and I want to hang out with her, so I left her a text message seeing if she had any plans for the night, she quickly replied that she didn't, I then asked her if she wanted to catch a movie, she replied "I might", then she texted me saying she would call me in a bit. It's now a day later and I'm still waiting for that call lol. You know, whether or not she calls me doesn't bother me, it's when somebody says their going to do something and then they don't. I don't know exactly how I should react to this. I'm thinking that if I don't get a call from her by tonight, I'm going to call her and confront her. Any suggestions?
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How should I confront her?
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Technically, she didn't say she would do anything. She said, "She might." If you want to confront her about it then you should. I would simply just ask her what happened without trying to come across as overbearing. Keep in mind something might have actually come up. Listen to what she says and when she's finished go over it in your head and follow your gut instincts.
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No actually she told me she would call me in a bit, she never did.
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my ex did that to me once. he said he would call me in like 5 minutes but never called. i saw him a few days after that but didn't bring it up. oh well. i would just ask what she did last night instead of bringing up the call and then forget about it.
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Should I call her or should I be a hard ass and wait for her to contact me?
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Well I just tried calling her and she didn't answer. I'm pretty bummed, I had high hopes for this girl.
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eh, that sucks. well whenever i talked to my ex, he NEVER answered whenever i called him even just to talk about anything. so i just talked to him online or WoW. u could see what happens whenever she's online if u're on at the same time. he only responded to me online and then calls me whenever he pleases. we don't talk anymore though cuz i'm not standing for that shit anymore.
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I think I'll just wait a couple days and try again. I don't want to seem desperate or clingy (I'm not).