Hi i am new to these forums. i am a virgin, and never really had a girlfriend. the only thing i have done is kissed. i like girls ALOT!! but i am to shy for some reason like i cant think or do anything when a girl i like is around. and when i was little i had poison oak all over my body and in my crotch too. well i was stupid and scratched and scratched it and now i have scars on my hips to my crotch that look like scratch marks. they are pretty visible. sometimes when i have no shirt on and i'm wearing baggy pants they show and my mom was wondering where i got those scars. do you think girls will find them very unattractive? because i find them hideous!! it sucks!! and i'm 16.
Scars=Embarrassment for Me..HELP..
Welcome to A2A, Phlipdude19.
You're not alone in feeling shy around girls and not being able to do anything - so many guys feel the same. I think you need to push yourself a bit out of your comfort zone, but don't aim to do everything at once - take it in stages. If a girl you like is around, stage 1 is to say hi to her. The next stage might be to talk to her about school stuff; then about her, and so on.
Have you had a dermatologist look at the scars? While they can't be entirely removed, there are techniques that can make scars much less visible.
When I was six I crashed my bike and lacerated my balls and penis. Over time the scars have faded, and even though they are visible I've never had a girl comment on them. I wouldn't worry if I was you.
"Believe those who are seeking the truth; doubt those who find it"
thanx guys!! you guys helped a lot and gave me a big confidence boost!
welcome to the boards
to be honest i find scars hot on gyus
*~I don't mind living in a man's world..As long as I can be a woman in it!~* -Marilyn
I think your a liar...
Im covered in scars and alot of girls have always cared that I was.
Course it was a posative thing rather than negative.
Chics dig scars.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.