My best friend is very very vibrant. she's a very outgoing young girl. she likes to act all ghetto fabulous and whatever and likes when she gets attention. I love her to death and she's practically my sister. and she has the most perfect boyfriend but he lives a couple states away. they are so cute together you wouldn't believe it. he has the same beliefs as her, he encourages her all the time, talks to her on the phone, tells her how much he wants to see her, and continuously tells her how beautiful she is. now this little gyal is having whatever hormones whatever. there's this guy at my school she keeps flirting with and it's getting on my nerves 1) i don't know what she could possibly like about him, he's rude and annoying and not even that cute and 2) she has a truthful boyfriend already who could possibly be her future husband considering how long they've known each other and how long they've been together. I don't like the fact that she's acting like this but I don't want to get all in her business. I just don't think it's fair to him that she's flirting around with some guy to the point she wants to hook up with him. she's always like "oh yes baby mami likes" or "papi chulo lookin hella good". it's annoying and sometimes I want to slap her. I do get her in check though by telling her to chill and that she knows what she's doing is wrong but... I don't know. there's only so much I can do.
I think part of the problem is he is a couple states away, so maybe she needs more attention from someone who is much closer? I dunno I wouldn't be too worried, flirting happens, it's when its taken to the next step.
lol oh buddy you don't know her. she's not like that at all. she's the girl you find in church balling out. she's the one who throws scriptures at you every second when you say something wrong. if I say "man, I hate this crap" she comes at me with a "Hate is what the devil has for you. be careful what you say because the enemy is always on alert." she has the reputation of keeping herself innocent and pure. not involving herself with certain people. the thing is, she could care less about the other guys. they say something sexual to her and she'll send them away crying or scared. it's just this one guy who she keeps getting all nasty over. and I sorta agree with what the other person said about how she just needs more attention but not really. she talks to him all the time and they visit each other every two weeks or so. i guess that's not enough maybe? but she's not one to jump from guy to guy like that. she's told me for 5 years now "he's my husband. that's who I'm going to marry. that's who God has for me". all the time. and I'm just like... ok. they're like...cory and topanga lol.
and I'm not really judging or anything. at least I don't think so. it's just I've known her for a long time along with her boyfriend. since our parents had afros and danced to "Disco feva". but I don't know. like I said I try not to get into her business and let her handle herself. but if she does get out of line by doing something she'll regret than I most likely will step in and bring her back to reality.
Perhaps she needs something like this to realise she is not different from the people she lectures to, and needs a bit of humility?
She sounds like a walking contradiction. Most of us are without realizing it, we live in a "too opiniated" world, where one's own opinins will contrast against one's own actions (that's why people are people, full of errors). Oh well, the planet continues to rotate. 65 million years from now, perhaps this earth will be lucky enough to be inhabited by non thinking species. Again.