With the topic being said.. Now I will explain.
I'm 19 and I am a virgin. I have no intent of losing virgnity just to lose it.. however, I have found a girl I really like. I would personally enjoy being able to engage in acts with her.
I however, am very immature.. as in I have no desire to deal with children. I read the guide.. and it seems the most effective method at the moment is steralization which I have mixed feelings about. I have no intention of gettting steralized at the moment.. however, I may be considering that in the future.. (apparently.. on my fathers side.. there were 2 that were "normal" out of 6.. my father wasn't born with organs in the wrong place.others in the family had different and almost random issues.).. According to my mom I was "normal" yet, apparently I'm colorblind.. I was diagnozed dyslexic and "slow" when I was little however, I "grew out of it".
The girl I like in particular said her family has a history of depression and other issues according to her.... So while I have no immediate desire to get steralized.. I can't say I ever plan on having children.. and well.. especially with her.... She feels the same way. So.. one day.. steralization is probably whats going to happen..
However, for the mean time.. I am really.. not wnating to have kids.. but, I do want to engage in intercourse.
Should I just grow up and accept the fact taht I should refrain from sex until later? Or what.. She has bad luck.. I have bad luck.. and well.. I can't help but, feel that if we actually do.. we will end up getting the worst possible scenerio.. Seeing as she is a virgin also.. that probably adds to the risk of pregnancy.. two people who lack experience is probably not going to make the situation any better..