i liked this one guy. and then, i met this kid online. and ive known him for about a month now. and then yesterday, he asked me out. and , i wasnt going to,b ut i siad yes. cause i mean, i kind of liked him more than a friend, but yeah. and the more i think about it, the more i shouldnt have. because he's all the time saying that he loves me and crap. and i told him i love him back. and i love him as a friend, but not in the way he's thinking. and i feel awful about it, because. i dunno. i just feel so uncomfortable in this relationship, but im scared to break up with him because he's already been through a lot of shit. and i'm kind of friends with his ex. so that makes me feel even worse. i know he can't love me like he thinks he does, because really, we've only known each other for barely a month, if that, and yeah. he just doesn't know a whole lot about me. i dunno. i need to talk to him. but i don't know how i should do it.
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I just dug myself into a really deep hole.
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Wait, so you met a guy online and you're going out with him or online?
Or have you met up with him?I'm not sure about how you should break up with him, but if you're uncomfortable with him, then you need to. Especially as he's saying he loves you, you could get in a really serious relationship and not feel the same way.
I think maybe you should tell him that you're not ready for a serious reltaionship and you think it's going to fast and you need some space?
Whatever you do, he's gonna get hurt.I think you should do it soon though,before you caught up in it all.
Hope I've helped in some way..
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December 21st, 2012. THAT'S when the world will end.OK sorry. Just tell the guy (in a wise-guy voice and cigar danglin') "So I Tell's the guy...."OK sorry again. I would bring up the same points you said here, and you can even say that you feel you made a mistake when you told him you'd date him. It's ok to say that you don't think he feels LOVE for you, how he takes it is out of your control.
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Originally Posted By: FarahWait, so you met a guy online and you're going out with him or online?Or have you met up with him?I'm not sure about how you should break up with him, but if you're uncomfortable with him, then you need to. Especially as he's saying he loves you, you could get in a really serious relationship and not feel the same way.I think maybe you should tell him that you're not ready for a serious reltaionship and you think it's going to fast and you need some space?Whatever you do, he's gonna get hurt.I think you should do it soon though,before you caught up in it all.Hope I've helped in some way.. That's the thing. I've never even met him. I dunno. I hope he'll understand, though.Originally Posted By: SexpertDecember 21st, 2012. THAT'S when the world will end.Watch donnie darko sometime. If you haven't.
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It's my mom's computer.
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Oh, I just read up on the movie...and now I understand. Sounds weird. May I recommend a horror movie by takeshi miike called "Imprint?"
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Sure. I'll check it out.Andddddd, he just signed on. Damnit.