ive always had trouble with endurance and its rather embarassing for me. my fiancee claims she doesnt care because i can still make her climax aswell, and maybe she doesnt, but i do, and im sure she wouldnt mind me lasting longer either. its to the point where if i manage to get 2 minutes in im impressed myself. no matter what type of stimulation it is its always the same short outcome. id figured it would get better over time but it hasnt so im wondering what the problem could be or what i can do to fix it.
Recently they've been blasting this nasal delivery stuff the supossedly makes you last longer. I know a lot of that sort of stuff is bullshit, but these ads have been everywhere, TV, radio, billboards, to have enough money for those sorts of ads it must be doing something. Worth checking out anyway.
lost my internet so this is first time ive been able to check this
is there any natural way to help out or are some of my best choices pills and such
Have you tried stop-and-go, and Kegel exercises?
yeh ive posted here about the same problem before and thats the advice they gave me so since january ive been attempting to lengthen my endurance using both if anything its just gotten worse but definetly now better
all tho i must say the stop and go method does allow me ot shoot holes in my ceiling but thats not a good thing :c
if anything its just gotten worse but definetly now better
I don't understand - does that mean it became worse but now it's improving?
I'm guessing better sex/orgasm but shorter time.
Don't some condoms have numbing additives that allow one to last longer? If there are condoms like that...try them or see if there's something can be added...
Only other solution is to tell your fiance to stop being so damned good at what she does!
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no it just hasnt gotten any better at all
and yeh i think there may be condoms that do but that would only slightly help during sex but wouldnt be of any service for any other sexual acts
also i have trouble believe its because im sensitive in that area because i know for a fact im not. being i have 7 different peircings that getting them done i barely felt a thing.
unless being sensitive to pain and being sensitive ot pleasure are controlled by 2 different things? which i dont believe they are.
Ah, I understand now - the "now" was a "not".
There are also creams you can use - they are local anaesthetics that make your penis feel numb. The trouble is:
1. That means it's not as enjoyable;
2. It may train your body to be even more on a hair-trigger;
3. It needs to be covered with a condom, or where it touches her she will feel numb also.
oh yeh i didnt even realize that i did mean not
is there anyway that doesnt involve the use of a condom.
i was born sterile so we dont use condoms because im incapable of getting her pregnant.
I'm sorry to hear that. I wonder if there's any connection between your medical condition, whatever it is, and being too fast?
i thought about that as well. i suppose it is possible that its linked wouldnt be surprised any. but ive asked doctors whove said they cant say for sure if its linked or not. also couldnt recommend me any non-surgical solutions.