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hey i am not so new this is pollies little brother im 13 and mutal msaterbate and am bi. So if u wanna say hey or just talk about whatever post or pm thanks Question:Pretty much all about anal? Is it safe to use lotion and a sandwich bag as a condom?Also is it safe to be doing anal at 13? im not gunna do anything eles related in anal until someones answers this. Me and my neighbor (if u have read post before)are experimenting and he asked me to find new ways. So please all comments are welcome besides HOMO and GAY FAG or stuff. So pretty much anything we can tryout and stuff please no porno sites or stuff just comments.Comments like i find anal best satisfing when i do it in this postion or i like to try to do stuff like this with a partnerPs: im not gay i have a gf just Bisexual

>>Is it safe to use lotion and a sandwich bag as a condom?

NO. Do *NOT* use a sandwich bag as a Condom. Noooooooooooo.

As Far as Lotion goes, no. It's not safe due to most lotions/baby oils, things like that are oil based and makes the common Latex condoms ineffective/less effective.

Also, you don't have to worry about HOMO or GAY FAG comments on here, we're a pretty progressive/accepting bunch. Also, you don't have to worry about porno sites either, its against the board rules :wink: Welcome.

I'm glad you've got your own username now.

The problem with using a sandwich bag as a condom is that it's not stretchy and could split while thrusting.

oo rly? well u got any other substitutions because it doesnt feel as good with out a condom or something. but what if i didnt thrust to hard?o well any substitions for lotion lol...

Originally Posted By: teen gone wildMe and my neighbor (if u have read post before)are experimenting and he asked me to find new ways. ...Ps: im not gay i have a gf just Bisexual Yup, I read that post and since you didn't respond to what I asked, I'll ask again. I'm sorry, but this is kind of bugging me and I would like for you to clear this up so I don't go off the handle. You told us that you're doing mutual masturbation with your neighbor, who's a guy. That's fine. I have no problems there. But then you say you have a girlfriend. My question is, does she know about your neighbor? To me, it isn't fair that you are going back and forth between two people if they don't know about each other.I'm really really sorry if I came off as pushy or inappropriate but it just seems bizzare, unless you guys are in a polyamourous relationship.

Uhm... Even if your having anal sex, you still need a condom to protect pregnancy, as cum can seep out of her ass and make her pregnant (I think you said you had a girlfriend, that's why I mentioned that, if your having anal sex with a man, you need a condom to protect against STDS, same as with a female).As far as lubes go, there isn't an age limit on buying KY at a grocery store.

well ill have to take on of my brothers he dont mind. but with girls they dont wanna do anal yet but with my neightbor he doesnt care but im gunna go try doing it with a acuall condom soon so thanks for the advice.Ya she knows and she doesn't care and she just cares that im not gay and i know im not. Because i like her alot better then him but he is a friendAre lubed condoms good or should i still use lube?

Please do not take this the wrong way, but how old is your neighbor, does your girlfriend know, are you having sex with her, and you're having unprotected anal currently with your neighbor?

For anal sex a condom is important even with a guy (where pregnancy isn't an issue), because STDs can be easily passed on by anal sex, and you don't know who else your neighbour might be doing it with.Lubrication is also very desirable, and pre-lubed condoms may not be enough. You need to use water-based lube with a condom, not oily lotions, because oil weakens the rubber and makes it split easily. KY Jelly or Astroglide are examples of water-based lubricants that are made for the purpose.

Originally Posted By: teen gone wildoo rly? well u got any other substitutions because it doesnt feel as good with out a condom or something. but what if i didnt thrust to hard?o well any substitions for lotion lol... O_OALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!I'm sorry but I don't care about how it doesn't feel as good as without one. From what you said, I'm assuming you've had unprotected sex before and that is a HUGE no-no! Listen, you're only 13. You don't want to have a kid calling you daddy or get an STD or even both at the same time. If you're going to keep on having sex, that is your choice but for the love of your life, PLEASE USE PROTECTION ALWAYS! And NEVER use cheap subsitutions. Both Java and Ineligible have given you excellent advice, so please take that to heart.Sorry for bouncing off the wall there and I have nothing against you but having sex with no protection is just stupid.

There was a good thread on this in the sexuality > fetishes, etc. section. It'll help you out a lot. I wish I could post the thread url directly, but I can't. But the name of the thread is How Not to Cheat .

Actually teen gone wild said it didn't feel as good without a condom.

Calm down hon, you're going to scare him off.

To Both You, Ineligible, and the OP:

I'm sorry, lo siento, gomennasai. >_< I'm just a really huge worrywart and I guess that comes from the "Big Sister" side of me. Plus, the extra hormones I'm getting right now isn't helping. I didn't mean to come off like a crazy cat. I really gotta calm down and THINK before my fingers get keyboard-happy.

yes we are using a condom and no im not having sex with my gf too young. We always use a condom now. lol np i have had the same problem

You didn't really answer any of our questions.

how? but dont worry vitual we didnt have unprotected sex because i wanted to see what people say on this before and it a big deal and i will never do it unprotected...Cuz i never want to get a STD

How old is your neighbor, and does your girlfriend know.

Hey sweetie,Yeah, I'm still sorry about that, lol. But I'm feeling much better at the moment thanks to a bit of ice cream. But listen, I only went crazy because you're still young and you have your whole life ahead of you. But I am glad you are using protection and being smart about this. Stay safe. And here Java, in case you missed it:Originally Posted By: teen gone wildYa she knows and she doesn't care and she just cares that im not gay and i know im not. Because i like her alot better then him but he is a friendI would keep in mind about your neighbor's feelings though. Is he really okay with you guys having sexual relations while you have more personal feelings for your girlfriend? What I'm afraid is that this might get really complicated later on.

no see we are gunna only do this stuff for like 1 yr just to experiment and then its all done she said she was experimented to so were cool with it and my neighbor is 13 and so am i