Hi all. I haven't posted here in a long time, but have checked the place once in a while. Cool to recognize some old faces. I doubt any of you remember me, hehe. It's ok. To recap about one year ago I dumped my ex after learning she cheated and got pregnant. Anyway, I learned she married and must've given birth by now. Kind of a downer at the time. The good news is a couple months back I met a great girl and we've gotten very serious. We took our time and now she's staying over almost every night. We go out, have fun, her family likes me, my family likes her, it's great. And it doesn't seem to be an issue she's 18 and I'm 23.But I do have a problem. And it's during sex. It's all great and I got her to orgasm for the first time in her life (she was actually numb and seeing everything blurry for a while after haha) but I can't finish myself. It feels great, she's really good, just at a certain point my mind races. So I mostly pay all my attention to pleasing her. I think I'm really nervous about loving her and we haven't said it to each other yet. We talked, and she seems to understand, but I'm afraid she'll think I'm not attracted to her. Any advice? Any other guys around here have/had a similar problem? Maybe it's the location. We've showered together a couple times and that worked. Once we get in my bed I feel less comfortable I guess.
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Finally in a relationship again
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Yeah. That's actually a pretty good idea. I've been thinking about getting a new mattress for a while.
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maybe you were focusing on getting her to cum and not you thats very sweetjust relax and have fun
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Hi ash. I missed you. That's how I view it, making her orgasm is more important to me than myself. She's getting really worried, though, and wants me to see someone. I think maybe I do have a problem. Psychological, physical, a little of both, whatever. I used to be depressed. It's possible I'm not completely over it. I know I can keep it up and orgasm, just for some reason during sex after a while I feel nothing or get right to the point of orgasm and lose interest.
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well hunn to me you seem fine. my boyfriend is the same way. he likes making me cum first then he cums after seriously, just try and relax maybe you can try more foreplay,or a different position. if it gets down to it, theres nothing wrong in visiting the doc. but I dont really think its necessary.