Died..

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Again, if you don't have anything nice to say here, then why bother posting anything at all? Just stop posting here because you're not helping at all and you're turning this thread into something really nasty.For Abi's sake, I will stop replying to you and I will apologize to her for your ridiculous replies. I'm sorry Abi that this guy is being such a heartless ass.

It's a good thing it's not up to you then

I am not one bit surprised u have these problems in ur life

What StillSearching has to understand is that Abi saw a tragedy in front of herBelieve me, I understand...

You seem to fake to be honest or real.

Ok, I will try to make this my last post about this:I didn't mean to offend anyone here. A.W. said I didn't understand....But in reality, I said what I said (shit happens, get over it) BECAUSE I understand... and I know all about the emotional shit that goes along with seeing a tragedy like that... when I say "get over it" it is my way of offering help, simply because I don't want the Topic Creator to go through the same shit I did.That is all...

No where when she wrote this.. now I'm a little depressed about this, and you know just keep her in your thoughts"Did she want anyone to say "GET OVER IT".You don't understand. You think of everything that happens towards you as negative and dont seem to want to fix anything. Abi is a completely different, wonderful person.. and does not need or deserve to be talked to like that

You think of everything that happens towards you as negative and dont seem to want to fix anythingYou really need to stop acting like you know me, seriously.

Damn I'm sorry to hear about that JF14. It's especially hard when hope shows up and then it's taken away. Good luck and keep your faith.

To others: What StillSearching said is quite alright. Whether you agree with it or not is irrelevant. Opinions don't span 100% of the spectrum and just as his does not either, neither does yours. You say it's cold and heartless, he realistically points out that it's a fact of life. Only two things in life are guarenteed. You're going to live, and eventually you're going to die. When the latter comes, who's to say? But don't make this into a huge spectacle when it most certainly does not need to be. You nor I know what stillsearching has been through unless he has personally confided in you. So just leave it at his opinion was stated, and should be valued, just as yours can be as well. Again, don't add to the tragedy with meaningless bickereing.

Abby, that is truely sad. There aren't many things in life as sensles as a child losing his life.Ben, I'm sorry to see you haven't emotionally grown or evolved. this is also sad.

Abbie cuddlesSTILL SEARCHING - i knew this would happen as soon as you came back and you moan on about the welcome you got, well if you are going to post cruel and hurtful things like that why don't you sod off again!!!!You wonder why people don't like ya? wise up sunshine its cos you're an attention seeking childish little prat!!!having the decency NOT to say hurtful things is something you need to seriously learn, if not you deserve how people treat you.

Abi I am soo sorry for everything.My heart goes out to you and the little girls family StillSearching :: OK IM AM SOOO FUCKING SICK OF READING YOUR DEPRESSING AND ATTENTION SEEKING POSTS!!! STOP BEING SO RUDE, STOP BEING SO INSENSITIVE. A LITTLE GIRL DROWNED AND ALL YOU HAVE TO SAY IS "GET OVER IT"??? I AM SICK TO MY STOMACH READING YOUR POSTS HERE.I TRIED KEEPING MY MOUTH SHUT IN ALL OF YOUR POSTS,BUT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!KNOCK IT OFF! Quote: And I guarantee you I was not smiling. I'll e-mail you the pic again if you don't believe me. AND WHOS FAULT IS THAT?!?! STOP BLAMING OTHER THINGS IN YOUR LIFE FOR YOU SADNESS AND SUCK IT UP!!!STOP TRYING TO GET US TO PITY YOU. WHAT ARE WE SUPPOSED TO SAY WHEN YOU SAY THAT YOU "GUARENTEE ABOUT NOT SMILING"? YOU WANT PITY,AND BELIEVE ME YOU ARE NOT GOING TO GET ANY FROM ME.MAKE YOURSELF FEEL BETTER, GO TO A COUNSELLER, GET A NEW JOB, MAKE SOME NEW FRIENDS, HELL, START TREATING PEOPLE WITH RESPECT!!! HOLY SHIT. EVERY TIME SOMEONE TRIED TO HELP YOU ON HERE IN THAT OTHER POST ALL YOU DID WAS DENY EVERYTHING THEY WERE SAYING.If anyone told me to "get over it" and "welcome to the real world" when both of my grandparents died last year, I seriously would have broken their jaw.sorry guys for ruining yet again another post. BUT I HAD ENOUGH.

I'm so sorry you had to witness something like that :frowning: I hope I'm never placed in the same situation, it must be awful. I hope her family are doing okay.

stillsearching - while I don't agree with how you put yourself across, and I do think it was incredibly insensitive, I would say you'd probably have been better off not posting at all... I still don't think your comment deserved the reaction it got and I feel that it should be left alone now.

I'm very sorry Abi dear, death is always hard and very sad. big hugs@ everyone else!This thread was not put here for every damn person to jump up and down and shout about how much you hate reading StillSearching's post because you feel like he's being mean. I don't agree with the way he stated it but it's how he feels and you nor I know what he has to deal with in daily life so quit screaming about it! If you don't like it don't bloody read the damn thing!! Why does it always have to result in bickering? Instead of worring about his comment worry about Miss Abi and how she's feeling and try and comfort her instead of acting like a bunch of rabid dogs!!

This place has gone to serious shit.Guess I was right.. NO ONE would do anything about it.Fuck I wish steve was here instead of this fucker

Well it's not my bloody damn fault this place has gone to hell in a handbasket!! I could plead and ask nicely for God know's how long but you're not going to listen to me! There is no pleasing people on this board!

I'm fine with him being the way he is, but when someone is so insensitive about a little child dying, that just gets my blood boiling!! I held in saying something to him before hand in previous threads, but he crossed the line in this one.

I wasnt replying to u, you were just the last person in the thread.I just think its ridiculous how we are allowing blocked memebers back into the forums under different names

I know this, you know this, everyone knows this but what can you honestly do when someone feels the way they do? Nothing. I agree he should have kept his thoughts on the subject to himself, but what is stomping on the poor boy going to accomplish?

i understand but even so, im sick of him acting so insensitive just to get attention, and dammit hes getting attention because hes making all of us freak out...