So, basically I can't talk to my friends about this because they are a bunch of a**holes when it comes to relationships and crushs etc. So, heres the story, little bit of a read. There's this girl in my school named Liana, she is friends with a lot of my girl friends(friends who are girls lol) and she is really cute. But, we have never spoken before, and I didn't know her name up until I saw her on facebook.(www.facebook.com for those who don't understand). Now, I have a huge crush on her, but she doesn't know I even exist because we have never spoken, but I hear her being talked about with some of my friends, and she seems awesome. And, she is single too Now, another problem, is that another girl I know likes me, but, I don't like her in that way. We are awesome friends and all, and she has been pretty blunt with her feelings, but I like liana(a close friend of hers). I need help. How do I say no to her? And, how do I get enough courage, and the ability, to start talking with Liana, and maybe end up going out with her? I really need help
I have a problem. Need some guidance.
"When I met Mary, I got that old fashioned romantic feeling, where I'd do anything to bone her." - Jim Carrey, Dumb and Dumber
With both situations you just gotta do it, be considerate of the girl who is into you, make sure she understands how you feel, and that you're not bein inconsiderate. As with the liana you got to find out a common ground, don't just walk up randomly if you can help it.
Ah.Relationship problems.My specialty :P.First off. The girl who likes you.You gotta stop doing ANYTHING that could lead her to think you like her back.As hard as it may be, you gotta back off a little bit.I'm not saying to stop being friends with her, you just gotta restraint yourself from certain things.Now, i don't know how your relationship is like, what type of person she is, what type of person you are, but here are some...examples.Don't put your hand around her shoulders or waist.Don't rest your head on her shoulder.Avoid going anywhere with her alone. Not only will Liana assume that you like your friend back, (i'm assuming that your friend may have told Liana about her feelings for you) she will also back off. Your friend may also assume that you like her back.Don't hug.I understand that if these are usual, everyday sort of things you two do, but i'm telling you to keep it very very minimal. Very rarely, you'll give the hug when her dog dies. Very occasionally you'll walk with her to the corner store by your school at lunch.AS i said, keep these very minimal.As for making yourself exist for Liana, it is much too complicated to help you on a forum, so if you're still interested, notify me somehow and we can chat more about this on MSN or something.I did not pay attention as to when this post was posted, it could've been two years ago, but nonetheless.
> I did not pay attention as to when this post was posted, it could've been two years ago, but nonetheless. what the fuck. Then pay attention, especially if you know what you're about to do. This post is from June, and you jus bumped it back up in September, 3 months later. Good job.Or you could actually chanhge your settings so you could see the tiems.Also, here's a hint: If you find yourself looking at page 2 (or 3, or 4, etc.) of topics, then it's probably a bunch of old posts. Stick with page 1