Wasn't sure where to post this but w/e... i'll put it here. I have a friend (well my best friend) who I, for a very long time wanted to "fool around" with but was VERY insecure about bringing up the subject at all because a long time ago we jacked off together when watching porn and he said it was wierd. Last weekend we were a little tipsy and he seemed really horny and was all over me then just straight up asked me if I wanted to have anal with him... wow that really caught me offgaurd and ofcourse my answer was yes but the thing is that putting it in each others ass kinda hurt our asses and was like a bad enuf feeling that neither of us could let the other stay in until we came. I was wondering if this would pass with time if we did it again (and yes we used A LOT of lube) also can it be an enjoyable feeling having a dick in your ass? I'm not gay, before I thought of myself as straight but i'm kinda confused now cause i'm still really attracted to girls and I've had sex with girls a few times but I really like doing it with this friend too so I guess i'm bi.
Coming from a gay guy let me tell you when it comes to Anal sex there is more to it than just using a lot of lube and sticking it in. You need to slowly finger your partner to help loosen him up and help make him relaxed. Once he's feeling relaxed you than than SLOWLY start intercourse (witha condom of course!).
And yes if done right anal sex can be very pleasurable. Just have to take your time.
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Im not sure but I think you would only be gay or bi if your attracted to guys
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Originally Posted By: .:eGs:. MaverickIm not sure but I think you would only be gay or bi if your attracted to guys
He wasn't asking about his sexual orientation.
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Ive had anal with a male before (i consider myself Bi i guess) and he was rather large. About 7" long and pretty thick. We used only Spit, and it did hurt i guess but at the same time it turned me on, idk why but i get much bigger/harder boners when i have anal just something about it turns me on. So as far as being plesurable in a way yes it can be, also im not sure how this would work with a penis but there are sex toys that are made curved to hit the femal G spot and the male prostate so maybe if your friend or a partner you have in the future has a curved penis it may hit the prostate and be pleasurable? im not really sure hope everything works out
ya me and my neightbor were sore after the first time but now we do it slower fast is unenjoable and hurts lol
Ya, ok it's starting to makes sense... neither of us had any experience in the matter, he hadn't had any sexual experience at all... and I think we just kinda did everything wayy to quickly... suprised it didn't hurt more now that I look back on it.