I have this ex girlfriend and we broke up about a year ago but were still good friends and shes not involved with anyone, and shes pretty sexually open, so i want to ask her if i can eat her out for "practice". (ive never eaten a girl out) I figured it would be fun for her and doing a favor for me. What would you say to that if you were in her place?
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What would you do? (Need girls opinions)
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I would say no...because I never get involved in any way with an ex, let alone something as personal as that for a crap reason
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Originally Posted By: dangerheroWhat would you say to that if you were in her place? Personally, I'd say "Fuck you". In my opinion, getting involve with an ex, especially sexually, is going to get messy. Even if you say you are good friends with her, I wouldn't ask her (then again, you know her better than anyone here). And honestly, "to practice" is a stupid reason.But nothing personal, hon.
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I say.. go for it! Why not. You both arent involved. Whats wrong with a little fun?
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that just sounds so wrong in all aspects. like wow. obviously I'd say no. not just because it's an ex but just the whole fun and practice sounds weird.
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go for it, its what you call friend with benifits
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i say hell no..If she wouldnt want to go out im sure she doesn't want to have sex or whatever.
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I would say no.
Just one of those things that later on.. your going to ask "why"
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Why did you two break up?
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_StarOriginally Posted By: dangerheroWhat would you say to that if you were in her place? Personally, I'd say "Fuck you". In my opinion, getting involve with an ex, especially sexually, is going to get messy. Even if you say you are good friends with her, I wouldn't ask her (then again, you know her better than anyone here). And honestly, "to practice" is a stupid reason.But nothing personal, hon. She's right, that's basically just using someone for your own needs. If you have a girlfriend and you are about to perform oral sex on her ask her what to do. It's fun and plus you don't know where you might discover her sweet spot which makes that all the more arousing.
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Wow. Alright I'm not going to lie; I've had thoughts about doing that with my ex, but I just can't bring myself to do it. Why? Couple of reasons:1. Friends with benefits, no matter how fun they may be, almost always end up with someone getting hurt. Unless you can bring yourself to purposely hurt someone else emotionally, then I'd say don't go for it. As I can't do that myself, I choose not to be involved sexually with my ex.2. Girl's are in their nature more emotional than guys (some guys). She will probably get attached to you in some way or another in which case it leads back to #1. 3. To use someone for your own pleasure is just entirely wrong. Granted, it happens everyday, but this is a case of "just because it's the majority doesn't make it right."4. She is not going to be like every other girl out there. What she can possibly teach you is not what other girls may like, so in that case you've just learned a bum trade. 5. Is the number after 4.6. Just because I can
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Yea, unless you're going out, it doesnt matter how good of friends you are, I doubt she'd let you.