Hi guys.Well, basically, I'm worried about the fact that I'm uncut and right now, because of it, I'm not even a bit excited about ever having sex.I'm never going to get circumcised, though, because it would be painful and I would like to keep my body the way it was created. I'm also not religious, so there's no reason other then sex to get circumcised.But I've heard 'horror stories' about guys who are uncut and they have sex and end up with their foreskin all torn up and that doesn't sound very pleasant.I've also got another problem. I've never, ever retracted my foreskin. For two reasons...For one, it is pretty tight and painful when I try to retract it. I know that pain is basically the nerves in my body sending messages to my brain meant to mean that some kind of damage is happening, so I really don't want to try it...And the second reason is that I'm afraid I'll see something that makes me think there is something wrong with me.Any tips or suggestions for dealing with these problems?
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Uncut and sex...
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Originally Posted By: Zach IBut I've heard 'horror stories' about guys who are uncut and they have sex and end up with their foreskin all torn up and that doesn't sound very pleasant. That can only happen if you are not careful. Not every single uncut man will have that happen to them. My fiancee is uncut and we've never had that happened before. So, don't get scared over everything you hear. It's all about playing safe. Originally Posted By: Zach IFor one, it is pretty tight and painful when I try to retract it. I know that pain is basically the nerves in my body sending messages to my brain meant to mean that some kind of damage is happening, so I really don't want to try it... Have you tried the stretching exercises? That may help you with that problem. Originally Posted By: Zach IAnd the second reason is that I'm afraid I'll see something that makes me think there is something wrong with me. Like what? I'm sure nothing's wrong with you.
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Hi ZachIt's amazing how many boys have some sort of fear of retracting their foreskin, as though it is something unnatural which shouldn't really be done. Be reassured that most boys will find that their foreskin just slips back effortlessly and painlessly once they reach puberty and start masturbating.It's only the minority of boys with tighter foreskins, like yourself, who have to make a deliberate effort to pull back the skin. By the way, how old are you, and how long have you been trying to pull back your foreskin?The first time you retract, you may find that there is some smegma which needs washing away (just rinse with water), and of course your knob will be very sensitive when it is first uncovered. But soon the act of pulling the skin back and seeing your shiny knob appear will become an extremely erotic experience, and it is well worth the effort of stretching to be able to do this.
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But I've heard 'horror stories' about guys who are uncut and they have sex and end up with their foreskin all torn up and that doesn't sound very pleasant.
I think these stories are in fact garbled accounts of guys whose frenulum tore in sex - a much smaller problem than having their foreskin all torn up, which I have never heard of happening. Even the problem of the frenulum tearing only happens to a small minority of men whose frenulum is a bit short, and normally once it has healed there is no further problem. And if the foreskin is short it can be fixed quite easily beforehand by a very minor operation under local anaesthetic.Guys whose foreskin doesn't retract still have sex, with the foreskin covering the glans, and it doesn't tear up, but they don't get as much pleasure out of it as they would if their foreskin retracted.
In infancy the foreskin is stuck to the glans and can't be retracted. With time it separates and needs to get used to retraction. Sometimes it is tight and needs daily stretching for a few months - this may involve slight discomfort but should never involve real pain, because then there is damage being caused. Skin grows when it is stretched.
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Just cut it off man. You'll be much happier. teehee only kidding. But seriously listen to what the others have said, it's great advice!
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People have been having sex for thousands of years with uncut penises. We're all alive today so I can only assume it still works.
Search for the stretching thread for tips on how to retract your foreskin.
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happy birthday :smile: