Me and my girlfriend hav had sex about 20 times and shes only come once, is this normal? I'm begining to thinkim just shit at sex. I dont come particularly quickly i usually last 5-10 minutes and on a good day iv lasted about 15. Has anyone got any tips or things that i should/shouldnt do to make it better for her?
Making her come
oral sex..... foreplay...rub her clit. a lot :P a lot of women cant cum just through sex. they need clitoral stimulation
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You shouldn't feel bad about it, not all women come during sex, but of course that doesn't mean that you should stop trying.
Have you tried asking her if there is anything that she'd like you to do? Try focusing on her more, experiment a little. Not only will it make the whole thing last longer but hopefully you'll find a way to give her the ending that you'd like to give her.
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I agree with Ashley... More foreplay and clit play and oral, oh yeah!!!For some girls, 5-10 minutes really isn't enough time to get them off. You need to really work her up, make sure she gets really wet and really excited. Ask her if she is getting close, or have her tell you when she is getting close, then you can stick it in her.
yeah she does tell me when shes getting close and when that happens i do 'stik it in her' lol but usually i cant keep goin tht hard/fast enough for her to come without coming myself before her. So basically mooooore foreplay?
edit: ohh i mis read lol yeh but the problem with that is that i have to stop to put the condom on and that sort of ruins the mood a bit, she is starting the pill next time her period comes though so that should help.
and thanks for the replies!