Soooooo I am a pretty naive guy. Lack of experience describes the situation well. Some how my gf and i got on the topic of self pleasuring and apparently she had never tried it. She did and couldn't get any results. She became more aroused is what she said.. but, it was "anti climatic".
Come to find out the medicine she is on tends to inhibit the climax. So.. being a virgin I am kinda wondering if her and I attempt to do anything would she still suffer from that particular problem. (she was.. or is a virgin depending on how you look at it) And niether of us have had sex yet.. So I am wondering if we ever did anything would the whole "never have done it before" actually help the situation.. I mean self service isn't quite the same as the real thing.
I guess to clear up the situation.. She has never had sex anal,oral anything.. however she did get.. well fisted for lack of a better word during an exam at the doctors office which caused some ripping. So I guess the question is..just how elastic is the vagina.. I mean when the girl is a virgin and then she gets a whole hand inserted as part of an exam will it go back to square one? I am familier that a girls first time usually hurts for various reasons... so now that she has been.. "examined" will her first actual time hurt.. or what.. i mean is it going to go back to being as tight as it was.. or will it be more elastic from here on out..
Granted I can't say I intend on having sex soon.. I guess the question is *if* we did would there be a higher chance of her actually climaxing.. or would it just be best to wait till she is off of the medicine altogether..
I would hate for it to be a one sided event..