I'm confused

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My step-brother and I share a room and we masturbate (not together) and he purposly lets his cover slip off of him and keeps going. Every time he does it i want to keep watching then masturbate with him but i have a girl friend. Does that make me gay. Also should i masturbate with him. He has also asked me to suck his dick. Should I? He has also asked to suck mine. Should i let him?

its up to you.

I realy would like some advice or some answers from a guy on what a guy would do. (I dont care if its a gay or straight guy)

well sorry then. im not a guy.its up to you what you want to do.

Emotional attraction not sexual excitement is what makes you gay.Before anybody answers this I think we need to know what your age is and what his is.

we are both 16 he is nine days younger

i dont think it makes you gay boys r just curious to how we compare with others and are interested in how other people do things and for the masturbating with him thats not that bad if you want to but i wouldnt go as far as sucking only my opinion

That being the case, I will say that is not uncommon for adolescent males to engage in such activities. Beyond that what is done and how far it goes depends on both of your comfort levels. Keep in mind, not to go beyond his comfort level and don't let him go beyond yours, should you decide you want to do this.No one here can tell you "yes go do this" or "no don't". That choice is up to you. Think it through and be sure in your decision though because once you both engage in this, it can't be undone. In other words don't wait for the excitement of the moment to make your choice about whether you should do this or not, make that choice before hand.Moral and ethical questions, such as religious beliefs and your relationship with your girlfriend, I'm not going to address. Those issues are yours.

I let him suck me and it was amazing. I jerked him off but now he want to have a 3 way jerk w/ his bf should I it was fun w/ me and him

if you had fun do it i mean it makes no difference now u did it with him you had fun so might as well unless you dont want to for some reason its all up to you

I'm just gonna give you the benefit of my knowledge and experience here. Do with it what you will.First of all, I'm assuming that if you're nine days apart, he's your step-brother. No?I don't believe that gay or not gay is the issue here. (And I don't believe that anything you're contemplating makes you gay.) I think the issue is what is appropriate and what is healthy and what is potentially damaging. Taking a peek at your brother, or even watching him masturbate is not that big of a deal. I would even say that masturbating together (meaning at the same time, but each to his own junk) is not gonna be that big of a deal in the long run. But I would really caution you against continuing having sexual contact with him. Trust me, that can create problems for you down that line that you don't want. I know it's fun for you and exciting and when you get horny and things go "boing" it's hard to slow yourself down, but you really need to think about the long term implications of sexual contact with family members. Even step siblings.And like Scotty said, don't make your decision when you're in your room at night and it's horny-time. Make it before then and then stick with it. And demand that he respect whatever you decide. (Keep in mind also that if he's gay, which it sounds like he is, his motivation and/or comfort level might be different than your own.)

Well let me say,you are in a unique situation,not many teenage boys have the chance to experience that kind of thing if you really enjoy yourself,you might as well try what you can (as long as it doesn't make anyone uncomfortable),I'm 16 as well and have never been in a situation to do such a thing, so I can't tell you what I would dobut if you want to try something, I say go for it. In 2 years you'll be out of the house and nothing would've really changed all that drastically.So basically: if you want to do it, do it. If you feel bad afterwards, then don't do it again. No harm done. It's not a subject of gay or not gay, it's being a horny teenager and experimenting with your limits.

I suggest stop. NOW.Step brother or not.. Its my understading people who aren't even related but, still have a "brother sister relationship" shouldn't date... because it can produce personality depencies..Even if you don't have some intimate relationship.. there is still the sexual side of it.. and well with your brother? I'm sorry but, I just fail to see how that can be healthy. I can't site any sources however, carrying out sexual acts is probably going to put you in a position thats may cause problems later.I mean.. having sexual ties with your brother could be in the long run very detrimental.

Yes, by all means, do whatever the hell you want. As long as it feels good. And consequences be damned!
Nothing you do ever has any implications beyond the moment anyway, right?