okay so one of my best friends got dumped by his gf. she is another one of my best friends. while he was dating her he kept telling me that he wishes he had gone out with me because another one of my friends had forced him into the relationship. I want to go out with him, but I think that one of my friends will end up mad at me. do you think it would be wrong to ask him out? I'm gonna give him some time to get over the break up. But I still need to know if it would be okay?
Its your call. I don't think anyone here can really help. However, I personally guess the question is.. just how good of friends are they?
And well.. From an objectionable point of view... this guy could be a player. I knew a girl who was in love with one guy.. but, he had a girlfriend.. and he had to stay with that girlfriend because "she would cut herself if he didn't"..
so.. using the "oh.. your the one I really want" line..he pretty much played them both. He got a girl to cheat with him against her own best friend. Granted I don't know if there was sex involved.. there was an awful lot of clingyness between them.
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Never mess with one of your best friends territory. That's just dick, in my eyes. But it IS your call, but if you make the call to date him, get ready for a backlash from your friend, even though she dumped him.