hey people. Id like to thank you before hand if u take ur time to read this all feed back welcome-----Well me and my gf been goin out for 4months now.. 5months 27th july. We have a really really good relationship and everythings been good it still is good but i think im reading into things a little far. This summer she got sent away to this camp along with some of her friends. Its been 4 weeks and she calls me once in a while cause phones are banned well today she phoned me and seemed a little down.. like she has done before.. She says she's ill and stuff. When i asked her if something was wrong she goes no.. i said are u sure u sound down and she said she was ill and started coughing lol.. which sounded fake. Anyhoo then she started goin on about how much she really misses me wants to be with me and how much she loves me. Shes made me poems, sent cards saying i love u. She writes letters everyday just sayin how much she loves me. Its kinda freakin me out. I mean i dont mind it but yeh after speakin to a few mates it seems a little iffy. Then she started speakin about how Its Half Term at camp and all her friends apart from 3 of them are goin ho and last night they all went to the boys cabin to well just to go on the pull lol. Then she blurts out.. "i didnt go, i stayed in. arnt u proud of me?"."when my friends asked if i was goin i said no". Then she goes "i was afraid id do something that id regret and i wouldnt want to lose you". Then she goes "when i first went to camp all these boys were like oh nicole blah blah blah blah"..then she froze and i go and?..and she goes "then the next day i mate a necklace sayin Taken AND a braclet saying "i love jordan" and stuff like that. She made me a braclet aswell. Then she started goin on how much she loved me and said shes in love with me and she started crying. my friends said she just bein really nice to cover up or shes bein really nice so that when the time comes for her to tell me i wont be too fussed cause i love her and shit. I dunno its confusing cause she wouldnt really do any of wot i said like keep tellin she loves me etc and like basically start crying over it lol..i dunno?.. i think i might just be reading through it all and bein stupid
Am I thinkin to much or...
Time will tell, but I think you should take it on face value for now. Overanalysis can be very destructive to a relationship. If she is being tempted, she is also taking steps against it. That is something you should be grateful for, something she has done for you, not trying to work out what it all means. None of us would survive that.
the more you think about something the more it can seem like something you wouldnt like it going on, and thats gonna eat away at you. best just to think its all good and ok unless somthing really obvious happens... otherwise you might ruin a really good relationship. im guilty of that one