So, i had sex for the first time about 3 days ago..and we didn't use a condom..I don't think he cumed in me..but im not totally sure. And like right the next day I had my peroid...Is there a chance I still could be pregnat?
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...?If you honestly don't know the answer to that question, I wonder why you are having sex in the first. I can already tell you're really young.The answer is no. If you have your period, it's a sure sign you're not pregnant. Please use protection next time! There's no excuse for it, honey!ADDED:Yup, you're 14. Please educate yourself in safe sex or stop having sex in the first place.
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In all honesty,this is afraidtoask.com She couldn't very well ask that question to anyone close to her for fear of being laughed at, so she came to us.With all do respect Virtual_Star, you could've just given her a straight answer. You are entitled to your opinion, but there is no reason to make anyone feel stupid.
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I am fully aware of my body and what can happen. They only reason why we didn't use a condom is because we we're drunk. And yes it was a simple question that could have of been answered NICELY. Thanks anyways.
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Quote: It's your body, your future, and your choice(s) - hoxwever, speaking from experiance, I recommend that next time, he uses a condom, or he gets nothing.right on big mandude! my girl has a rule.. no condom = no sex.
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Originally Posted By: HelmsmaNWith all due respect, I think her point is/was - if you don't know about your body, and aren't smart enough to use protection, DON'T HAVE SEX.There's my answer through HelmsmaN's words (I love you Helmsy!).It wasn't to make her feel stupid; it was to make her realize that sex is more than fun and games and you should know the facts about it. So, it wasn't an opinion, Felix, it was pure, bold honesty.
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Originally Posted By: xthatsxbanginxI am fully aware of my body and what can happen. They only reason why we didn't use a condom is because we we're drunk. And yes it was a simple question that could have of been answered NICELY. Thanks anyways. If you are aware, why ask such a question?Wow, you were drunk. Another old excuse from the book. Honey, you are 14-years-old having unprotected sex and drinking. You are not on a good path. You can do better for yourself!And again, I don't see how you took my answer as being rude, when all I was doing was giving you the cold, hard truth.
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What part of Virtual Star's answer did you feel was not nice? She answered your question and gave you a little advice. Good advice I might add. If you choose not to take it, that's up to you. But it was clearly given by a caring person to a person in need of it.
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Wow, am I the only one that agrees with Felix? Of course Virtual and Helms have a point about knowing your body and being safe, but this is A2A and she should be able to ask a question without being made to feel stupid. And on a side note...yes, you can have a period and still be pregnant. But it is not an actual period. It is called implant bleeding or something like that. I have two children and had a full blown period (or so I thought) for the first two months I was pregnant. I mean, coming from a woman, if you are bleeding from your vagina...you have your period, right? That's why some women, including myself, do not realize they are pregnant.This site has an answer to your question: http://www.childbirth.org/AskACBE/pregnancy/preg39.htmlIt mentions in there that the periods are usually shorter and lighter if you are pregnant. In my case, they were not. They were just like my normal period.
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Wow, I didn't go through the whole thread, but I wonder, was this your first time?Cause if it was, (or even your second or third time) you could just be bleeding from breaking your hymen...Are you SURE it's your period?
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I thought of that...I was 17 and had been married for 18 months...It wasn't easy. I have a wonderful kid, with a messed up life.Why do we CHOOSE to screw up children???
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Whoa, wait a sec. There's no way I would ever get an abortion! And im pretty sure im not pregnat, I won't know till next month. And if I am, im not going to kill the baby. Thats totally wrong. But thanks everyone, all I asks was a simple question.
