How much are you willing to tolerate from your loved one/friends?I have recently realised I don't tolerate drama if it doesn't have good reason. I have a friend (as you all know) with agoraphobia. So I am willing to tolerate stuff from her because, I know she has issues outside of agoraphobia. She is taking it one step at a time and going in the right direction. She ironically gives me no drama.With friends in general I can handle talking about problems. However, when it comes to senseless drama I usually tell people to go bother someone else. Like one friend I had. He ditched me to go play halo. So I just never talked to him again xD.(more to it then that). And sooner or later I realised most people infact didn't like him sense long before I disliked him xD. Pretty much everyone was in on it but him.However, on the other hand I realized I have another friend who goes threw continous bouts of drama with her friends. "OMG YOU DIDN'T INVITE ME TO THAT" and other stuff that is pretty trivial.I have flat out told her if they cause pointless drama then tell em flat out to shut up and get over it like everyone else. Just sorta a known fact everyone screws up. Sometimes feelings get hurt. Simple as apologizing and moving on. So if someone has something really horrific going on.. say.. family in car crash stabbed in neck quadrapelegic. And dies 2 hours later. Ok. You can snap at me pointlessly. So how do you feel about drama? My lack of putting up with it seems to cut the amount of freinds I have. However, the ones I do have seem to catch the mutual understanding that if you have a problem. You tell someone work it out get it over with. Rather then sulk for 3 days take it out on the world. And then 2 weeks later not remember what your fighting about yet, still holding resentment anyway. (usually starting over some insignifigant thing such as someone being busy and unwilling to talk on aim)So what are your feelings about drama? take it? just not talk to people who are overly dramatic? or what.
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Quote:Like one friend I had. He ditched me to go play halo. So I just never talked to him again xD.(more to it then that). I'd hope that there is more to it than that, cause you seem to have reacted a tad over-dramatically. Just as you seemed a bit over-dramatic about the Orientation. These trivial things may seem important to you, as do the trivial matters of others. Let these people worry about these things, its their own imaginary problem.
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Quote:I'd hope that there is more to it than that, cause you seem to have reacted a tad over-dramatically. Just as you seemed a bit over-dramatic about the Orientation. These trivial things may seem important to you, as do the trivial matters of others. Let these people worry about these things, its their own imaginary problem. Trust me there was more to it then that. Infact I put up with him longer then pretty much anyone else.And I don't deny beign way over-dramatic about orientation. However, I have learned from previous expereinces I just don't sleep well with other people in the room. Most people dislike me. Throw in being slightly antisocial and a slew of other things it doesn't mix well.