Hurt myself unprotected sex

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Ok, so here is what happend.. me and my girlfriend were getting freaky in the pool lol so of course i didnt have a condom so i decided to just stick it in, then i felt like a horrible pain and pulled it out, i found that the little string thing let go thta is connected from like the shaft to the head i donnno what its called but it was bleading and today we had sex with condoms and it kinda hurt so i was just wondering if that was a bad thing, i mean obv it wasnt good, i think ill take a picture of it to show it

Removed picture seeing as OP felt his question had been answered - amz

It's called the frenulum. It tore becasue in the pool, the water washes away any lubrication. You want it to heal? No sex or masturbation for a week or two.

What's happened is you 'snapped your banjo string' - you tore your frenulum. The frenulum is a piece of skin between the head (just under the peehole) and the foreskin. Sometimes it's a bit short and can tear during sex. After it heals it should be longer, so just give it time to heal.Sticking it in without a condom is a risky business, though. Precum can carry sperm with it, and you may find yourself cumming before you were ready.

yeah, i talked to my friend, i kinda want to get circumsized but idk if it will cost alot/ if it will solve my problem, yeah my frenumlum or w/e you called it is alot longer now but it hurt to have sex today, but i mean i wasnt going to not give it to her, and the only reason i didnt use a condom was because i was just teasing her but then it broke ahha and it hurt so i wasnt actually going to go thta long w/o a condom because i dont need to be a daddy yet! lol

_if it will solve my problem, yeah my frenumlum or w/e you called it is alot longer now but it hurt to have sex today, but i mean i wasnt going to not give it to her, _

You "problem" is now solved. I don't know why you would need a circumcision now, unless you "just want to".

Just lay of the sex for a week. let her know what happened and you'll be fine in a week or so.

After you let it heal - as sdp says, no sex or masturbating for a while - it should be fine. No need for a circumcision on that account. If it's still too short it can be cut further by a doctor under local anaesthetic.

I thought it was funny how you have your Bible on the floor with your dick sticking out over it.

I know this is getting off the topic now, but i want to get circumsized because it would make me feel cleaner, but idk can i just ask my regular doctor about it? like when i go for my physical, sorry its off the topic now but can you answer?

Quote:I thought it was funny how you have your Bible on the floor with your dick sticking out over it. Lmao i just realized that... wow im so bad.. that is not good at all im going to hell now lol.. thats for the help guyss

You can ask your regular doctor. Why do you feel dirty?

Its not dirty.. i mean i know im clean, but its like i dont like the feeling of pulling back the skin i feel kinda embarrassed by it even though my girlfriend says she likes it because its the first one she has seen but i told her i want to get circumsized and shes like you dont have to but do it if you really want to so i do.. its not dirty its like.. embarassing idk why

you might be able to see it better in this pic, and no bible! Removed picture seeing as OP felt his question had been answered - amz

It's the natural and normal way in most of the world, and even in the US circumcision rates are decreasing.

You don't like the feeling? That's kind of strange considering your having sex and everything. IDK I would give it more time before you consider doing this.

Originally Posted By: sdpYou don't like the feeling? That's kind of strange considering your having sex and everything. IDK I would give it more time before you consider doing this. it feels like the skin kinda takes away from the pleasure i guess is what im trying to say.. idk ill def. put more thought into it

skin kinda takes away from the pleasure That's probably the opposite of what any intact guy would say.

idk.. maybe its just me.. but i dont like it.. lol thanks for all your input though

I thought pictures weren't allowed on this site, no matter what age they might be. I'm not trying to offend anyone, I'm just trying to make sure this site doesn't get involved with some government.

THANK YOU! Someone else FINALLY remembers that rule