well first ill start off im a little worried about my current situation..
A friend ive known for about 3 years now just broke up with her boyfriend of 9 years because he was cheating on her, its been about a month (maybe more, time flies) and she just asked me out and being the person i am i said sure. (we werent really "close" friends though, would see her wen i went into her work every few days and playing poker. When i said sure she was as excited as a lil kid in a candy shop.
I really like her and all were just exactly the same but i'm worried that I'm just going to be a "rebound" She took the break-up really hard and she worked with him every day pretty much, and he didn't even care after 9 years. My friends that work with her says shes always talking bad about him still,
ive never really dated before because my jobs and other friends were my main priority but i'm pretty much set in life as of now
I just don't know, I'm not the best at approaching people haha,
Do i just flat out tell her that I'm worried that i'm just a rebound? What should i do? any pointers/tips? Just don't want to get hurt yanno.
She broke up less then a month ago...
think about her reaction...
if u think she would react bad, dont ask her straight up. either find out frum some1 else or drop hints 2 her
You can't ask if you're a rebound because her answer would inevitably be no. However, the circumstances suggest the true answer is yes.
But that doesn't mean you are just a rebound. A rebound can become more than a rebound.