Me and a really good friend(girl) have known each other for quite a few years, and have really gotten to know each other well, and were perfectly comfortable with each other. Everyone thinks were dating, but were really not, it kind of sucks because she somtimes has a boyfriend for a week or two and I dont get to talk to her for a while. ANYWAY, I found out she was going to do a foreign exchange to France this coming school year for six months, I joked about this being the end of her virginity, and she looked at me and she said, "Well, you know I could lose it earlier!?!?!?!" We both began to laugh and then she said, how about Saturday at eight? So now, my best friend, not to mention one of the prettiest girls in the school, by anyones standards is going to have sex with me!! I am super excited, but I dont know if it will make our relationship akward. I doubt it will, we have seen each other naked before, and we kiss each other whenever we greet one another, it just feels weird, like having sex with your sister... what are ya'lls thoughts? Thank you so much.
Should I be exited or scared?
Don't be scared Get excited!! Trust dude, if there was a girl willing to let me be her first, and I had as strong a relationship (nevermind the names of girlfriend/boyfriend) as y'all seem to do, both physical/emotional...I'd be all over it!
My ONLY concern is that she'd be going away for six months. It's only six months and then when she gets back y'all could make it official.
Just out of curiosity, why haven't you gone for her sooner??
Beware the white text!
--consider that your disclaimer.
It will change the relationship, and you shouldn't bet on its continuing after she comes back.
I didnt get with her, just because we were friends, I knew we were a little "past" a normal friendship, but I didnt want to lose what we had, so we just had a understanding I guess.
She just called, we are going to see a movie tonight, maybe I'll talk to her about it. See how she feels, thanks for all the help!!
I personally don't recomend sex outside of a serious relationship though.
Personal beliefs aside.. having sex tends to bind you to a person. (at least from what I have seen).
And personal beliefs included.. I view sex as sorta symbolic of adopting a part of a person into yourself. Mentally and emotionally.
Its your call good luck either way.
Also I must admit I'm impressed you decided to ask before persuing. One to many people wouldn't have asked for other peoples thoughts.
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