Ok a friend of mine is having some problems during sex. She has had sex both with male partners, and female using strap ons. However during both encounters she has experienced what she says as almost a blocking as they entered inside of her. She says it feels as though their hitting an organ or something. The strapon is about 6inches and the male parter was about 5 inches if that helps at all.Anyone have any idea what this could be?
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Question for a friend
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not stickin it in right?
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Sounds like they are hitting her cervix. Her partner needs to either take it easy if he/she is being too rough or try different positions where her cervix won't be hit as much.
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that the thing she has tried almost eveyr position. Doggy style is the worst, but being ontop and then on bottom has also caused it.
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Why would the male partner be using a strap on?
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read the question again
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Well, the only idea I can give you is that her partner has to take it easy. When I have rough sex, it hurts like hell because my guy is constantly hitting my cervix. But when he's slow and easy, it's much more enjoyable.And it's easier for me to be on top so I can control the depth and movement. After that, I don't have any more ideas.
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Is it hitting/ blocked upon full insertion?
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The comma got me. How much can you get in before you hit the obstruction?
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Oh okie dokie my bad lol, when im typing fast punctuation is not usually one of my strong points. Basically what she says is that when ever someone penetrates her, most likely all the way in, it hurts, to my knowledge its not ever really been rough either so i dunno.
While with her first sexual partner they did have rougher sex when together and she never complained of anything like this.
It's only been a few months sense that as well.
She's had two sexual partners sense then, and the two most recent are the ones which have hurt. -
From what you've posted, it shouldn't hurt. Her best bet is to see a gyno, which she should be doing anyway if she's having sex.
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yea she's going to see one ASAP, but thanks for all the tips and info everyone, it's much appreciated by her and I
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ummmm well it sounds like she has a decended cervix which happens alot to women who have had children or who are heavy or who have rough sex alot. She should really see her OB/GYN to make sure but other than that the only thing that I can think of is that she is having some kind of muscle spasm due to stress which I have also heard of happening so Im not sure of her past or what her situation is other than what you have posted so I think this might help. Sorry if I am long winded I am in the process of becoming a mid-wife and I can not help but share ha ha ha. Hope this helped
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Welcome to AfraidToAsk, bmk! Those are helpful suggestions.
