First off, I'm 17 and a virgin. I don't mind being a virgin at all, but some people put a bad label on it.I am going to be having sex for the first time tomorrow, since me and Sarah have been talking about it, we decided that we want to do it.I know it's going to be a good time, but I was wondering what's the best way to last the longest before I come.I know that some positions are better than others, but what is the best for the most pleasure, while lasting a while?I also know that the less I think about it, being nervous about it, the better off I'll be and the longer I may last.Thanks.
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How to last the longest...
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Originally Posted By: APNI don't mind being a virgin at all, but some people put a bad label on it.And why should you care? Originally Posted By: APNI know it's going to be a good time, but I was wondering what's the best way to last the longest before I come.Masturbate before you have sex and use a condom. But honestly, I don't know how much that will help you because this will be your first time and first timers are quick because the sensation is much different. Originally Posted By: APNI know that some positions are better than others, but what is the best for the most pleasure, while lasting a while?That I'm not sure about. I don't know if there is such a position but I guess we'll wait for someone else to answer that.One last thing you should keep in mind is that if you do ejaculate in 10-15 minutes, don't sweat it. It's normal for a teen, so don't make it into a really huge deal.
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Quote:if you do ejaculate in 10-15 minutes, don't sweat it. It's normal for a teen, so don't make it into a really huge deal. The refractory period ( time to cum again) for teens is also rather short.
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Whack off before you go, and, if posible, stand up or be on your knees. It seems I last longer (while masturbating) when I'm NOT sitting down.
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Sounds like a good idea...First time I was ever nude with a girl, I found myself a bit wet from pre-come.I didn't actually come, but then again, we weren't having sex.
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I (and some others I have spoken to) find woman on top lasts longer, probably because she sets the pace.
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It's natural for precum to form when you are aroused as you undoubtedly were when you were naked with the girl. The hormones are flowing and your body wants to take it to the next step.Just be prepared as it sounds like you are doing. The first time will always be the first time, but it will probably not be the best time.It will probably be the best for both of you if she is on top. Other positions allow you to penetrate deeper and that is probably not as good for the first time.
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My first time it took me like an hour to get off(granted I was drunk), but doing it doggy-style gets me off the fastest...for some reason...it feels the best as well and I really have no idea why..
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Doggy-style is a deep penetration position - perhaps that has something to do with it.
