Ok i've had sex with my girlfriends 2 times. Both times I've used a condom, and she is on birth control. The problem is her birth control times were messed up at first. After the first time we had sex, she had a period not too long after that. After the second time, she had a period 2 days afterwards, which wasn't the time for her period normally, it was early I think.Could this be because of her messed up times with the birth control? She has got back on track since then, but we haven't had sex since then either. She did give me oral sex last weekend, and that got me worried too. I have no idea why, but I was worried because I was fingering her, and for some reason I worried that what if pre-cum with sperm somehow got on my hand before I fingered her? I don't think I even touched my penis beforehand, but I still worry too much.I tend to over-think situations too much, and I don't know why but I can't help it. The first time we had sex I tried to put the condom on backwards so I thought maybe pre-cum might have gotten on there, but I tried wiping it off etc, but she's had 2 periods since then so I doubt that would of been the time she got pregnant.
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Few questions...I think I just worry too much
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If she is taking her pills regularly and at the same time (i.e. evening, morning) she is fine and you have nothing to worry about.
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To be honest i'm not really sure when she was taking them.. I know she was taking them everyday, but I don't know around what time, she has been taking them at 12:30 am everyday lately...
Hopefully the condom saved me enough even if her B/C was ineffective :frowning:
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She said she has been bleeding down there a lot lately, would that be caused from pregnancy?
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No.
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What do you mean "bleeding alot lately"? Bleeding during her period? Or bleeding during other times? You don't "normally" bleed if you are pregnant.
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She has been getting her period too often, she is going to the doctor on thursday, she thinks her birth control may be too strong.