Ok so im going to the movies with this girl and we are definately gonna be making out...my problem is I have no idea what im doing. I need all the advice I can get...heres some questions1. How do I know when to go in for the first kiss...2. How the hell do you kiss a girl... I mean, I feel like it looks easy but I hear girls saying that some guys are bad kissers.3. When people normally kiss do they use their tongues or is that pushing it?The dates tomorrow and I need all the help I can get...if you have any advice, even something I didnt ask, please help...thanks.
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First kiss/makeout... I need help
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"1. How do I know when to go in for the first kiss..."Toward the end of the date, or after the appropriate amount of time if your just going somewhere to make out, when there's an awkward pause in the conversation. Look into her eyes while she's looking into your and go in for the kiss.>>>"2. How the hell do you kiss a girl... I mean, I feel like it looks easy but I hear girls saying that some guys are bad kissers."Don't be slobberin' all over her. Be gentle, caress her lips with yours, very between long kisses and short pecks, rub your cheeks together, kiss passionately but softly and lovingly until of course it's time to not be gentle, soft and loving.>>>"3. When people normally kiss do they use their tongues or is that pushing it?"Kissing no. Making out yes. Don't do it right out of the gate though if your making out. Build up to it. Take a little time to enjoy the long simple kisses before you stick your tongue down her throat. Don't just stick your tongue in her mouth either. Swirl it around flirt with her tongue, kinda like your playing footsy with tongues instead of feet.
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ok, were going to see a movie so we wont really be talking..(I dont think) so there wont be an ackward silence. And when your kissing do you have your lips match hers or do you like...for example.. have the bottom of your lip on the top of her lip and the top of your lip like.. on her cheek?
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is this going to be a date or a make out movie? do u know the girl well enough to know if wut she wants is to be kissing threw a movie? if she's never done this b4 and liek su and u go at her all threw ur date and scare her could be a change u want get a secound from her....but then again some girls or more into that so..... yea how well do u know the girl?
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its definately not her first time with a guy and shes been busy with lots of people. Thats why im worried...she has way more experience than me, the only time i've kissed a girl was when I was completely wasted. Im thinking its gonna be a make out movie...maybe not? Im visiting pennsylvania to see my cousins right now and this girl is my girl cousins friend. She knows im leaving to go back home in like 5 days so I dont think she would want to just go on a normal date with someone that she wont really ever see. Also, were going on a double date with my girl cousin and my friend, does that change anything? I also asked her what movie she would like to say and she said she didnt care, let my cousin pick, so shes going to be with me, not to see the movie.
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sounds good. she wants to be with you, for you. thats generally always a good start. for me, i can feel the chemistry buildin. then again. i'm 20 and i've made my fair share of balls-ups. however, its always a good sign if a girl looks at you alot. a good way of testin the water, is to lean in. if she moves her head, ready for a kiss, then thats it, mission accomplished. however, if she doesn't react, you can smoothly cover this with a whisper, sayin somethin nice, like "you look really nice tonight". oh, by the way, thats a damn good way to get a kiss ;)! being charming helps, so compliments here and there will go down a treat. as for the actual kiss itself, the technique above is damn good (may learn a thing or 2 from it yet) but what i prefer myself, is for my top lip to be in between hers. the bottom lip is kissin the bottom of her bottom lip, if u get what i mean. thats what i like. but once u break the ice, go in for the kill and get the first kiss over with, experimentation is a good thing.. within reason of course. if you do as suggested in the reply above, then you shouldn't go wrong good luck dude