Talkin to a girl online..

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ok, so im talkin to this girl since i found her myspace, and shes pretty hot. well i talk to her but when i start a conversation she never asks about me. like ill say "what bands you listen to" ohh i like so and so... but she never says "and you?" its like i have to keep comin up with things to say.does she not like medoes like me but is nervousdoes she like but thats just how she iswhat?

It sounds like shes trying to blow you off. sorry.

girl online = guy in real life.In all seriousness.. don't try dating over myspace.I have found (typically) people date online because they are afraid to try to date in real life.If someone is willing to date you over myspace.. then even if you meet in real life your still not really getting any experience in dating.Asking people out in real life show you have more nerve.. even if you get shot down then you at least showed you have nerve.

It sounds like spam. My boyfriend has a myspace and his mailbox is usually filled with messages from these "hot girls" and send "personal" messages, trying to be friendly.Sorry to bust your bubble, but it's most likely spam.Plus, it's generally NOT a good idea to talk to strangers online. There's a chance that the "hot" girl you're talking to is a dude.

Quote:My boyfriend has a myspace and his mailbox is usually filled with messages from these "hot girls" and send "personal" messages, trying to be friendly. I got sick of that. Even when I set mine (when I had it) on private I still got messages asking to be added….and the “way too personal for me” messages. Do they really think I’m going to add their horny slut asses?? LMAO I even got them from dudes…… The only thing that made this crap stop was putting a stupid picture for my display picture…. LMAO I don’t miss having myspace at all. Another thing that she could be doing (if she’s not a spam………witch could very well be a spam too) is she could be one of those that are into having a huge friends list. People will add u so they can up their friends list number.  Quote: Plus, it's generally NOT a good idea to talk to strangers online. There's a chance that the "hot" girl you're talking to is a dude.Even the ones u think are ok turn out to be fakes.. cough jack cough and then there was a dude I would chat too some found out he wasn’t a 17 year old.. but was 30. He Didn’t bother me too much tho cuz we were never close and he was always nice ..never really got personal so.. It was ok.. Ur 30 and not 17... I honesty don’t know why he was saying he was a teen and not a man but. I dk.. I did meet a girl threw his forum talked / chatted up with her for a couple years too… I was young and stupid and I wish I had put it all together long time ago. Maybe she was who she claimed to be but then maybe she wasn’t.. after I found out about the guy. I dk.. To me there are things I can see back on now that I didn’t then and things don’t seem right.“j” pmed me here and invited me to see his forum. Ok.. No harm he seemed nice. Joined the little forum and all.. Did a little chatting on there .nothing bad. Later on If get to realizing that his site is gay site. (yea freaked me ( the straight guy) out big time!!) but I stayed cuz they said they were trying to get more straight guys to join. I just stayed outgo their gay section…lol well then a girl comes and joins me and her get to flirting and acting goofy/talking. I saw two pics of her of the same “professional” picture with slightly different pose. And that was it. Cuz of her and a guy I chatted about motorcycles and dirtbikes with was really only reason I stuck around that forum. Then some one says “j” isn’t this.. He’s this and “j” admits that’s it’s true. He’s never done nothing to me so wutever.. I just didn’t go vist them as much and well I dk.. This was like last year or year b4 one of the guys from that site said one of the members ( who I had chatted with a bet) committed suicide. FUNNY thing is a couple days after his “suicide’ he signed into his myspace type thing….. But it wasn’t muyspace. Now I figue it’s like this either he isn’t dead or some one has his password and got into his account. Either way things were not adding up and I just was like to hell with all them people. I really …really wonder if tanna was a girl or just one of them faking to be a girl…….. Hummm ON the other hand…. I got a PM form some dude all the way from the uk (yes.. I’m talking about diver) and he turns out to be one of my close friends. Been friends since I was 14. I think I’ve known Pete for that long too….. LMAO poor Pete and Paul I know I make them want to pull out their hair. Tho Paul don’t have no hair to pull out. LMAO!!!

Lmao! See, this is why I will never get a myspace.

Myspace… I’ll never have it again. I did join this messenger thing ( I dk wut it is.. I got it from angel or like a invite from her.. I dk I can’t remember but I know I found out about it from her and joined threw her. But it was cool. Like ur a freaking cartoon thing and u chat just like u know on msn… but ur virtual (?Spelling). U can move around and expressions and I kept doing flips off buildings but it was fun untill some girls started freaking fighting over me….. Then I leave to get away from them and next think I know some girl is making out with me. 0o!! Yea.. I was just sitting here watching the screen. I didn’t know if I should been laughing or freaking out. I was just like wtf!?? Then I xed out that convo and then some dude pops up and was like hey and then beat the shit out of me (not me.. The person thingy) I was like …….wtf!??? Hell I left and deleted my account. I mean I just can’t deal with crazy ass people like that. I do still talk to one girl I met on their from Italy tho threw email… so I guess meeting one good person was worth trying it out. She loves horses and is always asking about my horses. LMAO I think she likes my horses more than me LMAO…. But wutever. She knows it’s a topic we both can talk about. lol takes deep breath i am in one freaking talkitive mood today

Quote:does she not like medoes like me but is nervousdoes she like but thats just how she iswhat? i'd say...well sorry dude but ur just a dude on her "friends" list. I’m kinda nervous talking to new people. but when i'm asked something i answer and i usually ask them the same. like the music.. someone may ask me something like wut bands u like... i'll answer and then say... you? usually they answer ( i haven't had no one not answer yet anyway...lol but i've got the u don't talk much do u? and all i can say is i have to work up to it.. i've even talked to this girl.. she was like u don't say much and i was like yea.. i know. i'm even more quite in real life. k she loled and said that was funny. But I wasn;t trying to be funny. Only being honest. ... i do not blabble and go on and on when i talk to people. (like i'm doing right now) lol but anyway she said something and i answerd her but i can’t remember it was brobly like wut hobbies or might have even been the music question. Then nothing... so then i told her i'm not trying to quite.. or rude i just can't think of anything to ask u. and she was like awww. ur sweet. i get the ur sweet thing all the time........ i think girls just say that tho cuz they don't know wut else to say LMAOi've relised that girls do not have problums talking to me (online or not)... to me their pretty outgoing...(some of them scare me!)

Quote:I bet you're an awesome Horseman too. Would it sound like I’m coincident if I said I am a damn good one. lol

Myspace is a black hole xD. I still remember when I made one.. didn't use it for over 6 months because it was flat out retaded. I had 0 friends..Then later on it became the easiest way to talk to people I knew in real life because we were on different schedules so to speak.Now.. I mostly have it because I use it to stalk my favorite band.. (or try to stalk them anyway.. I have only got to go to one show for one song.. and wanted to go back every since).

Quote:lol but i've got the u don't talk much do u? and all i can say is i have to work up to it.. I'm the exact same way. I don't talk much when you first meet me. Until I get to know you, then I will talk more. It aggravates people because I will sit in the car and not really say anything.

Quote:one of the guys from that site said one of the members ( who I had chatted with a bet) committed suicide. FUNNY thing is a couple days after his “suicide’ he signed into his myspace type thing…..Some people aren't happy with how they are in real life, so they do role-playing on the Net. But instead of role-playing in places where everyone does it, they sometimes go to an ordinary site and pretend to be who they are not. And they make a lot of friends who care about them.But it gets difficult, lying all the time. As the false story gets bigger and bigger they start getting parts of it wrong. And they may get tired of it all. But they are too ashamed to tell the truth, and they think the friends they have made (and about whom they care, too) will be too angry and upset if they find out. So instead they create a fictional death to bring closure to their fictional character.My impression is that most deaths in Net forums are of this type.

ALRIGHT YOU GUYS and girls...

She is definitely a 13 year old girl

1. she has a 65 pics of herself and friends on her myspace
2. shes from a town around mine called hanover, ma
3. ive seen her at the movies but never talked to her
4. one of my old friends went out with her
5. ive seen her around other places too like the mall and shit

i know shes 13 but if didnt know her age youd guess 15 or 16.

please stop answerin and then arguin with each other over dumb topics

stick to the damn question!!!

I think it's hard to answer the original question without knowing the girl better. She may just have a self-centred personality, or she may not be interested in you.

Originally Posted By: cooldawgplease stop answerin and then arguin with each other over dumb topics stick to the damn question!!!How rude. :PFirst, who's arguing? And what "dumb" topics are you talking about? If you are talking about Myspace, then yeah, that's pretty stupid. And second, everyone who replied here DID stick to your question. We gave you our thoughts.But okay, you want a blunt answer? Stop being such a little pussy and talk to her in person and find out why she isn't answering your messages.

HAHAHAH

well said.

im talkin about how the people went off arguin on how shes just a guy pretending to be a girl.. and then how myspace is dumb its fine i just needed some answers maybe i will talk to her in person cuz its hard to understand the "way" someones saying something online

Originally Posted By: cooldawgim talkin about how the people went off arguin on how shes just a guy pretending to be a girl.. and then how myspace is dumb Well, since you said, "im talkin to this girl since i found her myspace", everyone assumed that you met a stranger. You weren't clear that you actually knew this person in "real" life as well. Or at least, I misunderstood you. Originally Posted By: cooldawgmaybe i will talk to her in person cuz its hard to understand the "way" someones saying something online Maybe? You should talk to her because you're right, people behave differently in person and online. Best of luck!