i have had sex before but my current gf is still a virgin so i have some questions about the hymen.1) how long does it hurt after the first break? ie after sex does it hurt for the rest of the day? are you able to hide it from others? could we have sex then go walk the mall or some shit?2) i can only insert 1 finger in and that only up to the 2nd knuckle. im a big guy and have big fingers...but is that normal? i can fit more in but she stops me becuase it hurts and tells me it is too far when i put past the 2nd knuckle.finally is it at all strange that she is less nervous about sex then EVERYTHING (kissing aside) else? when i heard she was a virgin i thought we would take it slow work our way down the bases but she has voiced several times wanting to skip to the end (this is slightly exagerated...i have fingered her many times and eaten her out several also so dnt get me wrong)
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Originally Posted By: wowhead1) how long does it hurt after the first break?That acutally depends on the session (ie you). If you are too rough, it will hurt like hell and you may cause her genitals to be irritated and sore. If you take it really slow AND use lube, she should be fine. Originally Posted By: wowhead2 i can only insert 1 finger in and that only up to the 2nd knuckle. im a big guy and have big fingers...but is that normal? i can fit more in but she stops me becuase it hurts and tells me it is too far when i put past the 2nd knuckle.Yes, it's normal. If she says stop, THEN STOP! Do NOT put any more than she can handle. Quote:finally is it at all strange that she is less nervous about sex then EVERYTHING (kissing aside) else? Not really.
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thx. is it trully necessary to use the lube i mean she gets pretty damn wet or it better safe then not? also buddies of mine have told me to finger her bigger before inserting my penis should i do that or just go in with the helmet on and take it slow?
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my advice... dont listen to what your friends have to say, it is your girlfriends and your sex life, not theirs... its really up to your girlfriend on how much SHE can handle, maybe working your way to bigger SLOWLY is best, but you need to listen to what she wants too
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Originally Posted By: wowhead
is it trully necessary to use the lube i mean she gets pretty damn wet or it better safe then not?
It's safer to have a bottle in case she does goes dry. Women don't constantly produce lubricant.Originally Posted By: wowhead
also buddies of mine have told me to finger her bigger before inserting my penis should i do that or just go in with the helmet on and take it slow?
I'll be blunt. You friends' suggestion don't mean crap compared to what your girlfriend says. If you can't put in no more than 2 or she says stop, then you listen to her. You can finger her to help her relax but don't force many fingers in her. But make sure to take it slow. -
thx again for the help.
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I been lucky enough to pop the cherry on 3 girls and heres what I learned that works for me.1 girl bled alot the other two not much. They could do anything else (besides having sex again) right afterward. I used a good drop of lube after getting her good and hot the I stick my penis in as far as it will go. once I sure I'm going in straght I push it in hard tearing the hymen all at once. they cry at this point partly from pain which theres some even with enough lube and because its very emotional for them. Once inside go slow and see how much thrusting she can take without it being painful. In one case she could only stand me to move a little bit back and forth so that's what I did and she came. I would also suggest finishing her off with oral sex if she doesn't cum during sex. hope this helps.
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You didn't know? You're a real man if you've popped their cherry and make them cry in the process.
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I would highly recommend communication above all else.Have a bottle of lube + condoms Just in case.