ok.. so I'm really tight down there and I'm afraid to have sex cuz I'm afraid it will be embarassing. wut can i do to help this?
Im tight help me
Use fingers to loosen things up and be accustomed to stretching the vagina.
Like SDP said, try to loosen yourself up with your fingers. Use one finger and eventually try to get 2 or 3 in there.
Also, when you're about to have sex, make sure there is a lot of foreplay and you're very "hot" and into the moment. Don't be nervous of what you're doing, the person you are about to have sex with should understand that you're human and it's a team effort.
Other than that, have fun!