okay, here it goes!me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a month now and i have had one period, which was on july 2.. and now for some reason i am freaking out that i am pregnant.. i am a very paranoid person and i sort of feel like i am blowing the whole thing out of proportion. and i feel this way because when we have sex.. we ALWAYS have used a condom and he pulls out before he even cums. and then he checks the condom for holes or anything by puttin water in it and squeezing it (you get the picture) to make sure no leaks.. and there has never been a problem.. so im pretty sure im not pregnant.. but theres still a chance i guess? and i should be starting at the beginning of august.. and maybe i shouldnt be worrying just yet?.. and for those reading im 18 and hes 19.. we're not just some kids.. just someone give some advice.. please!
-
Im so worried about this.. HELP!
-
Hon, you are seriously blowing this out of proportion. With all the checking and everything there is no way you are pregnant. It may sound crazy but maybe you aren't ready for sex if this is what you are going to do every time. The only time you should get worried is if your period is more than 1 week late. Hope that helps!
-
ya.. i told him that i shoudlnt have sex if im gettin upset about something thats so stupid.. but like i said im a paranoid person.. and i take ALOT OF things that way.. but thank you.
-
I have no idea why are you hitting the panic button so soon. You said so yourself, your next period is in August and we are still in July. If you keep worrying and putting all this stress on yourself, you will cause your period to be late.
Honey, you have two options:
-
Go see a gynecologist, get a Pap Test, and get yourself on birth control.
-
Stop having sex UNTIL you are mentally ready.
-