iuno but its really weird to me. i just started having sex this past year and ive only done it like 3-4 times. with diff people but im 17 and at first its all goin good but then as soon as we stop for like a sec it starts goin down. and its like WTF lol so one time i took the condom off and then it came right back up. is it the condom or what. the girl said it was part me and part the condom for the problem but i dont no. i also have issues takin a piss in a urinal if anyones around iuno if its related but can somone help its so anoying is it nerves or what. is it normal? any reply is appreicated thanks oh and i can get it up fine durin like foreplay as long as its not intercourse
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Im 17 and. its hard to get it up
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It could well be nerves.
Another possibility is if the condom is too tight - if it should be a larger size. It should be tight, but if it's too tight it can be hard to keep hard.
Having trouble urinating if anyone else is around is very common. People talk of being 'pee shy', or having 'bashful bladder'. I don't know the percentage of guys with it, but I think it must be quite high.
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urinal thing is common i would think... i hate it when im pissing and a guy walks up next to me and some always do the quick glance for there own reassurance before unzipping for some ungodly reason....
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thanks inellijible ill look for a bigger size condom or somthing. just duno cuz it seems to fit fine but ill check. i thought they had one size fits all and magnums haha guess i was wrong?
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Condoms fit (nearly) all lengths, but different girths may need different sizes: slim, regular, large (e.g. Magnum) and extra-large (Magnum XL).
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i also heard that masturbating too much makes it hard to get it up during sex? is that really true
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If you do it just before, yes.But if you mean at other times, it might if you became used to a certain sort of stimulation to get hard, but otherwise I don't think so.
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ah okay well thanks bro appreicate the help. im thinking its probably jjust nerves since im not completley comfortable being compleltey naked hah. duno y:| but wutev itll get better thanks man
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Yea.. Being naked with some one else is different than being naked alone that's for sure.
The condom fitting right can be some too. I dk.. I know for me when I was fighting the stupid rubber to roll down I would get frustrated with it. The stupid thing is just supposed to roll down.. It was tight and it didn't roll down so easily. I have started using the large magnums and it's helped just having that little more room.