For the last month and a half approx., my sex drive has been going through the roof and I have no clue why. Nothing has changed as in sleep patterns, no medications being used, and no difference in metabolism or foods being consumed, but I just seem to be horny all the time and not in a good way. I would have to say its becoming a problem. I find I am instigating sex with the boyfriend and masterbating a great deal more than usual and also having stronger orgasms and easier to reach as well. This isnt really bad thing, lol, but combined with other things it is. An example is I have been watching tv or movies with roomates and their friends and made the excuse to use the internet or make a phone call to go and relieve myself. Its not even a nice "warm glow" of a feeling, its more a harsh "I need it now" un-ignorable thought. I find that getting off through either sex or masterbation completely relieves the feeling but doesnt last more than a 1/2 a day or so at most. I have almost cheated on my bf a couple times now and its not me being premiscuous, but rather I just cant control it if that makes sense? Its also not the bf not giving me what I want or pleasing me etc., he is doing fine. I dunno if anyone knows anything about this, I really dont want to go to my doctor and tell her this as its kinda embarassing in person, and I dont know if a doctor would know much about sex drives?
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Sex drive increase, what is wrong?
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You're living "Libido Loca." People have different sex drives. Nothing abnormal about it. I need a girl with your drive, because I'm living "Libido Loca" too.
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Well I think if you've almost cheated on your boyfriend than yes it is a problem. I can't help but imagine that if you call up your boyfriend he wont be up for it. No offense or anything but, I say you tread lightly with other guys and your overactive libido. Now when it comes (no pun intended) to seeing your doctor cant you schedule an appointment with another doctor? then you have trouble telling him about your problem instead of telling your regular doctor.Again, no offense I don't mean to sound harsh.
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I have to agree with the above user. You should definitely tread lightly.
However, I guess I could also go out on a limb and ask your age?
I mean.. different people have different sex drives.. however, also in life in general its my understanding that at some point in life you hit a peak.
Hm. Also might as well throw this out there even though you probably already know it... Don't get caught offgard without protection.
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LOL Helmsman, your picture is so very funny.Hehe well yeah I dont think the bf would ever complain much. Yeah I was thinking I might make a doctor appointment after all, as I guess they would hear about sex drives etc since they can proscribe Viagra and the such. I am 23 right now, so for my age I should not be in the peak as for women its around 30ish I believe. I agree with the protection idea though and have actually started carrying a couple on me which is a major indication that something is going on. I kinda hate it and myself a little bit too right now. Its making me feel like I cant trust myself in normal situations in case my , lol, "hyper-drive" kicks in.
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Just have your boyfriend on speed dial. Or a leash. Whatever your preference is.And if it makes you feel any better when college starts if I manage to start dating anyone I will probably carry condoms on me at all times. I have always had pretty good self control (19 and still a virgin) However, I also came to the realization (last few months with a previous girlfriend) that women tend to want things just as much as men.So... odds are any women I'm with in the future I will probably end up discussing this with any girls I date before hand. All it takes is a little bit of momentum and its hard to stop.Unplanned sex doesnt nessicerly equal unprotected sex.
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Women's sexual peak is like late 30's early 40's.
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So you're saying my wife still has some time to reach the peak? Cool!! I think shes stuck in the valley.
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This is NOT the case for every woman, and also I'm not sure how old your wife is. I'm 34, my GF is 44, and she's definitely not in her peak. We have sex so infrequently I'm actually about to break up with her.
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And my poor guy can't keep up...And apparently, I need to loose the nails.lolI whine after a couple of days! Almost 32, and I have always had a strong sex drive, though, there were times when sex sounded GREAT, just not with the ass I was with.....