Next time we break up, which will be soon. I WILL NOT go back. No matter how much she crys, no matter how much sweet stuff she says.
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Breaking Up
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I don't want to be with her, and I keep falling back into her trap.
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So why do you take her calls, read her messages/email/im's????
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I don't know.
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I never never done any drugs, or smoked tobacco in my entire life, not planning on to.
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If you're brought up to keep other people happy, it can be extremely difficult to go against that and say no, especially when there are tears.
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You really need to get out of the relationship.Good luck, man.It's obvious that shes being manipulative, but much I say can really add on to everything everyone else has said.I just hope you don't fall for her crap anymore.
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We broke up for good, it wasn't over a fight or anything. It's because I'm going to school in 6 days and she will barley be talking to me. This is what I need serious help with. I can't stop crying, she blocked me on everything. We are never going to speak to each other again, in our entire lives. That makes me cry. Just all the stuff we did and now she just said "Bye, I hope you know I will always love you and have a place in my heart" and then she hung up. Forever. I can't handle this, what do I do?
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Wait, what?Why do you have to stop communicating completely? That makes no sense
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I don't want to. She said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. She isn't mad or anything. She just said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I really don't know its beyond me. She said because it makes her cry & brings memories if she talks to me.
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Sounds like something else is going on to me, but you know her better.
Anyway, that must suck... but good news is, you'll get over it eventually.
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Well, I think I got over the crying now.But now everything seems boring. Every morning I would wake up and talk to her, now I wake up and do nothing. Every single day this summer we would talk to each other from when we got up to when we went to sleep. Now I don't have anything to do. And I can't get her off my mind.
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How long does it normally take for this to go away? For her to be the last thing on my mind.
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For me personally, after the loss of a 3 1/2 year relationship (from late 18 to 22 years old) it took about 1-2 months to stop the pain, by the 3rd month I'd forgotten most of it. By the 4th month I was ready to go again.Now I've been dating my GF for just over 4 months now; and what Helm's said IS actually true; you will honestly find better (I did).
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We started dating September 1st, 2006. Tommorow would be 1 year. But it wasn't even constant. We even broke up for 2 months at one point.
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Yeah, I know. It's just hard at first.
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She just told me now, that this one night where she went to her ex boyfriends house, that he raped her. She told me that night they just started fighting so he drove her home. Just now she told me that he raped her. I don't know if I should be or not, but I am so fucking pissed. This is how I found out shes just trying to be a bitch to me saying I cheated on her (i did not, shes just saying it)Then I say "atleast I didn't sleep over at my ex's"Then she said "yeah and i enjoyed every fucking bit of getting raped, gettin forced into doing shit"Then I said "You never told me that.. you just told me you guys started fighitng so he drove you home"Then after I said that she didn't say anything. Then I just started saying stuff like:wow thats so fucked upi really dont want to talk to you anymore either. (since she said she doesnt want to talk to me)Why wouldnt you of just told me that earlier?so we could of broke up soonerhow could of you done that & not tell me?Then she said "I fucking hate you" and hung up.I don't believe her when she said she was raped. Because wouldn't you think 10 minutes after you are raped you would not come home with a smile? She came home fine that night. This happned in October 2006. She told me now, September 2, 2007. That is so fucked up I really hate her now. God I cannot explain in words how much I fucking HATE her.
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And what did we learn from this?Don't date psychos!
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Could someone also answer this...How long would you be in prison for:- Rape- He refused to take her home- Wouldn't let her out of his house- Punching herI know this is all bullshit but I'm just wondering.
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I asked her why she didn't do anything about it, like call the cops. She said because of family would of killed her. Wow, if that was the case I would do it for her.